How to disconnect door harness?

[ZeroChalk]

Hey all,

I was fiddling around with my led mirror signals and I attempted to wire the signal lights through the front door connector. Everything went well until I ran in to some complications. Now, I can't get the rubber back on to cover the electircal wires completely. I've been trying for hours, but because of the small space.. I can't wrap the rubber around it to make a complete seal. I need help!

Is there a way to disconnect the door harness so I can wrap the rubber around it before reconnecting it to the door? I looked at the workshop manual and I can't figure out where the lever is.

To illustrate..

http://www.icestormdesign.com/mwcc/mazda/manual/esicont/en/srvc/html/images/CHU0911W0092.png

http://www.icestormdesign.com/mwcc/mazda/manual/esicont/en/srvc/html/images/B3E0911W003.png

photos courtesy of Optimizer.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y247/DragoGotti/Step09.jpg
I took the rubber off but can't get it on completely to seal the electrical wiring.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y247/DragoGotti/Step10.jpg
So.. how do I disconnect the connector?

Thanks