I'm in desperate need of your advice, please chime in.

[3GFX]

:rant

Some of you may know, that I've found a new SheFX recently, and things are going incredibly well. But things have been getting quite sour quickly and I'm stressing myself out. I really need your advice. I have suspected for some time now that she has been cheating on me. The usual signals, when I'm at her place and I answer the phone, the caller hangs up and she's always on her phone texting. :flaming

She's been going out with 'the girls' a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, 'Just some friends from work, you don't know them.' :whoa

I always make time to spend with her or at least call to check in, but I usually fall asleep by 3 or 4 in the morning. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her. :complain:flaming

Around midnight, I decided to hide up the street from her place behind my car so I could get a good view of the whole street when she arrived home from a night out with 'the girls'.

When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It was at that moment, crouching behind my car, that I noticed that the wear on my rear tires is uneven. :bang

Is it because I've lowered the car and I haven't done an alignment yet, or can I always expect it to be this bad?

[Kevin@nextmod]

*does the nelson point* HA........ HA.....

go get an alignment done

[kid_icarus]

u want advice on your tires or on your girl?

[Gizzmo_jr]

Um..yeah...I'll stick with the spring part for now. I see your on pro-kits and I don't see why you should have any problem. They are designed to work with stock struts and should leave camber and stuff all within factory spec. I'd get an alignment and make sure you request the numbers. I've got pro-kits and don't have any wear issues (had an alignment 2weeks after install)

[RedRaptor]

Oldie but goodie.

[mleblond]

u want advice on your tires or on your girl?

+1

So it seems you need 2 alignments ;) One for both babies; the girl and the car.

[3GFX]

+1

So it seems you need 2 alignments ;) One for both babies; the girl and the car.

Yea upside the head :bang


Seriously I don't know what to do....

[Fobio]

I swear man...it wasn't me in the other car!

And yeah...get an alignment...lol...so next time, you can hide out behind the car with the comfort that you will be getting even treadwear...

[sauga_kid]

Way too good of a post...my advise, stop checking up on your girl, that way you find too many things wrong with the car:chuckle

[zedtech]

- If you have that much suspicion and are already resorting to spying on her to find out the truth, the relationship's pretty much over already.

- Get an alignment :)

[mleblond]

If you want my opinion on the girl... you might as well talk with SheFX as it seems your not on the same note. And to be honest....when you start spying on the girl that's when you know it's not gonna work...I would move to the next! You obviously don't trust her... What do you do when you don't trust your car....change car right?

Good luck 3GFX!

Ive been thru that shit before and know how it feels....the longer you wait the worst it's gonna get. Talk to her man. Mine actually cheated on me with a guy from her work...and same pattern "going out with people from work, you don't know them..." anyways bad memories for me...

[Cardinal Fang]

:chuckle

I wish the rest of you would post more problems like this. Simple solution really.

1. Stop stalking your girl friend or break up with her.
2. Get an alignment.
3. If for No. 1 you choose the "break up route" then I suggest a night at Whisky A Go Go to make you forget about her.

Good post.

[mleblond]

It would be cool to get a woman's point of view on this....Calling out all TM3 women members!

[Xerox]

nicely done.

[mEtH]

First off if she is putting her panties on in front of the house then thats a hooker you've been dating. Secondly, I am sure you would of found out a lot sooner!

The first two paragraphs are quality but then it just got way to obscure... well I guess not so obscure since you are from K-town. :chuckle

[Fobio]

Dude...don't complicate things...obviously, the girl doesn't appreciate a good thing...don't waste your time on her...

On another note, if she's cheating on you because your car's out of alignment, then you have no one to blame but yourself... :chuckle

Girls come and go, but your car will let your ride into the sunset...

[Wild Weasel]

heh. Saw the same joke in reference to a bike before. Funny. :chuckle

[huyzel]

I wonder if MGM will be able to do her thing with the searches for the first part of this one?? :chuckle

+1 on the alignment... you may also want to buy the camber kit. (available in the ForSale forum)

As for cheaters... from a 10,000 ft level...
3 step solution:
1. Ditch him/her
2. ?????
3. Profit.

[kid_icarus]

As a joke to begin with.

I think you should schedule a mini-meet outsider her house when you know she's out.
Then as a group we'll confront her and tell you if she's worth your trouble.

SHE COULD be in a "les" relationship... you never know...

bottom line is there are a world of possibilities
you're better off to just confront her up front and get things over with rather than worry in wait and fear...

besides... you're imagination is typically worse than reality
but you might as well figure out the truth than imagine right?

plain clear and simple
good luck

let us know how it goes.

[Broli]

hahaha

that is hilarious Dave.

alignment and camber kit . . i need an alignment also . . . lets work smtg out.

if this girl problem is true . . . steal from her the money for your alignment before you drop the ho!

:P

[KOKKINO]

GET RID OF HER!

You talk it out, you give her one more chance what happens she thinks.. meh I have this guy wrapped he'll never leave or he'll always take me back, so she will continue going home with her blouse undone and her panties in her purse.

Do it now that you've just started dating, it's easier than continuing on and she does it again 2 years into the relationship. IMHO

[JiNuWiNe]

Wonder what Google-mui will search up this time! :chuckle

Ditch that hO and get an alignment done.

[Cardinal Fang]

It would be cool to get a woman's point of view on this....Calling out all TM3 women members!


Wonder what Google-mui will search up this time! :chuckle


Seriously if MGM chimes in with links about this topic I'm going to ban her right away.

[3GFX]

Ok, I think I've let this go on long enough....


The story is partially true...I need an alignment. :chuckle


Although I would have liked to keep this thread going, I ran out of popcorn :pop

SheFX is not cheating on me, things are actually going quite well and I'm very happy. The rears do need an alignment badly, but I might leave the fronts cambered to avoid rubbing. When I go for my next oil change (within 2 weeks) I'll get the alignment done.

So ummmm, thx for the advice :chuckle









:gone

[kid_icarus]

this is story and member effort abuse !!

you're as bad as james and his COBB Prank!
and his finger prank

[midnightfxgt]

I knoew it was a prank... except I thought it started when he mentioned he had a girl :P JK Bro! hehehe....

-John

[mleblond]

I would at lease have SheFX read this thread so she knows whats gonna happen is she does something stupid ;)

[LockOut]

What, he catches her cheating, and everyone's going to tell him to get an alignment? Not sure how effective that will be as a threat... :chuckle

[Cardinal Fang]

Gentlemen, gentlemen!

I think we're all missing the point here. Regardless of whether or not this was a prank by 3GFX my point about visiting a strip club is still valid.

[Broli]

Just cause you met Mrs. Fang there . . . sheesh . . .

hhaha

:P

[mleblond]

+1 broli

I vote Mega meet at strip joint Saturday after BBQ Meet :)

[LockOut]

I don't think anyone actually ever DISMISSED the idea. I think that we were all silently agreeing with you....

[Cardinal Fang]

Just cause you met Mrs. Fang there . . . sheesh . . .

hhaha

:P

And I'm still paying for it.

*Runs*

[KOKKINO]

oh boys!

[Cardinal Fang]

Man do I feel embarrassed.

You can join us too KOKKINO. We don't discriminate around here and I wouldn't want to make you feel left out.

[KOKKINO]

HA!.....

do i get a lap dance??? ...lol...j/k

[SpeedBaby]

HA!.....

do i get a lap dance??? ...lol...j/k

i'm sure you can get a two for one deal courtesy of broli & cardi duet :chuckle

[Cardinal Fang]

HA!.....

do i get a lap dance??? ...lol...j/k

Surprisingly there's very little dancing.


i'm sure you can get a two for one deal courtesy of broli & cardi duet :chuckle

Now that's not nice. Broli's time has got to be worth something. :chuckle

[KOKKINO]

i'm sure you can get a two for one deal courtesy of broli & cardi duet :chuckle

LOL..... where have u been baby??? miss u!


Broli and Cardi eh??? hmmmm!! :chuckle

[Broli]

we call the act Bro-Cardi, it is more intoxicating than the rum!

:chuckle

[sauga_kid]

we call the act Bro-Cardi, it is more intoxicating than the rum!

:chuckle

Bro-Cardi:chuckle...wow, I bet it hits harder than 151, that's something I don't want a taste of.

[Cardinal Fang]

http://i26.tinypic.com/s2e8vn.gif

That's about the extent of Bro-Cardi dancing. And yes this will leave you with a bigger headache then the rum.

[Broli]

u have to imagine it with the two of us doing it . . . and we don't do it side by side . .

lol

[Fobio]

Members stripping...possibly for mod money...

do we see a pattern here?

pls...no more Bro-Cardi imageries! I don't know you guys, and I do look forward to meeting you one day without that image in my mind!...lol...

If I meet the both yous "back-to-back", pls pardon me if I ROFL-copter...

[-RJ3-]

LOL!!! Nice one Dave....

[Cardinal Fang]

u have to imagine it with the two of us doing it . . . and we don't do it side by side . .

lol

*Smacks Broli with a Trout*

That came out wrong you silly bunt.

[Broli]

thats it . . .our partnership is over!

haha

[LockOut]

*Smacks Broli with a Trout*

That came out wrong you silly bunt.
I'm pretty sure it came out exactly how he MEANT for it to come out... but I agree with you, Cardi... it's wrong...

[Cardinal Fang]

thats it . . .our partnership is over!

haha

What a Bitch.

[matt9]

mazda meet at stripclub for once?

[sauga_kid]

for once? I think its been done if I recall right...I wasn't there, but I think I remember reading somewhere.

[Garu]

*Smacks Broli with a Trout*

That came out wrong you silly bunt.

Wasn't that an emote from FFXI online?

[mleblond]

Where is MGM when you need her?

[Junior]

SheFX is not cheating on me, things are actually going quite well and I'm very happy. The rears do need an alignment badly, but I might leave the fronts cambered to avoid rubbing. When I go for my next oil change (within 2 weeks) I'll get the alignment done.



If by rear you mean junk, and by fronts you mean tattas... i guess a good OIL changing would happen naturally. BTW, I don't know how much your girl appreciated the reference of her body parts to car parts.

Is there a reason you're need to realign in 2 weeks? ... Do you have a curve in the shaft?

[mit-gee-mui]

You guys are so funny....

*struggles with whether to find links or not*:whoa


Yes, no, yes, no, yes, no.....

http://www.torontomazda3.ca/forum/showthread.php?t=19853&highlight=uneven+wear



Honestly, all my thoughts were already stated in some way or other.

#1 - Did you want car advice or girl advice?:chuckle



Even though you clarified, I just thought I'd add some thoughts:
#2 - Not to sound pessimistic and maybe it's just me feeling this way, but if you don't trust someone now, what makes you think you'll trust her later? That paranoid feeling will stay for a VERY long time. However, it's good to know she's not cheating on you.:)

#3 - If she actually were being unfaithful, as already stated, don't drag it on. It will be WAY more difficult to break away later.

#4 - It is usually the ones you trust the most and suspect the least that you find will cheat on you. They may be able to hide it for a while, but it may partially be because you don't want to believe it and act blindly or because they slip up. People are getting craftier and craftier when it comes to these things nowadays. Trust me. Especially the way society is, more and more people are getting away with it as well. Not to say all women/men are scum bags, but when you find a good one, don't let them go.



for once? I think its been done if I recall right...I wasn't there, but I think I remember reading somewhere.
Officially, no... Only thing I could find was this
http://www.torontomazda3.ca/forum/showpost.php?p=182528&postcount=15
Toprotege does strip club meets though. Maybe you saw it there? I find it very hard picturing some of you behaving in one of those...:whoa


Where is MGM when you need her?
I was out trying to take pictures of that weird colour.
See here http://www.torontomazda3.ca/forum/showthread.php?t=24721
Sorry I missed all the fun.:bang

[Fuman]

if you're going to stay lowered, fix the camber.

as for the girl, leave her now or you may get rashes later

[Unoriginalusername]

why i kept reading is beyond me lol

[matt9]

so the conclusion to this thread is ....... strip club meets now?

[theurgy]

Thanks alot... now all the people in my office think I'm crazy for laughing out loud after reading this...LOL

[Cardinal Fang]

so the conclusion to this thread is ....... strip club meets now?

I think a conclusion to any thread could be "Strip Clubs."

[3GFX]

Can I just say I never expected quite so much of a snow ball? lol.

SheFX pointed one thing out, if I was hiding up the street behind the car, she'd recognize the car. It's obviously not a stock Mazda3. This is just one of the reasons I like this girl, *chuckle* (yes I mean the trivial ability to recognize my car and how in love with my car I am :p ). Gotta say I got quite the good laugh out of this. Especially the Broli Cardi inuendo.


So strip club meet? I think ever strip club meet should have a booty call pre-meet.

Roll-Call:

1.
2.
3.
4.
....

[matt9]

1. 3gfx
2.
3.
4.
5.

[wtom]

This was originally posted here on TM3 by bluntman, wayyyyyyy back in the day.

Either way, great read every time!

[iconicrocket]

i'm sure you can get a two for one deal courtesy of broli & cardi duet :chuckle

:hurls

I've seen the two in person, not a pretty sight. lol.

[Broli]

you want it Tony!

[Cardinal Fang]

:hurls

I've seen the two in person, not a pretty sight. lol.

We get prettier with every drink.

[LockOut]

We get prettier with every drink.
Well then drink up, boys and girls... This could take a while

:gone

[KOKKINO]

^^ :chuckle

[Cardinal Fang]

Ouch! :chuckle

[LockOut]

Hahahaha, I kid because I love, Cardi and Broli!

[ds2chan]

lol.. can you imagine like 30 mazda3's outside one of these joints?? somebody is going to think that something is up..

[Cardinal Fang]

lol.. can you imagine like 30 mazda3's outside one of these joints?? somebody is going to think that something is up..

Guy #1: Wow! Look at all those cars.

Guy #2: Yeah what's up with that?

Guy #1: I'm not sure but that's pretty embarrassing don't you think?

Guy#2: Yeah I do. That Blue Hatch has a "3" emblem as well as the "Axela" emblem.

Guy#1: What the fark was he thinking?

Guy#2: *Shrugs*

[3GFX]

Ahaahhahahahah so classic.

[ds2chan]

Guy #1: Wow! Look at all those cars.

Guy #2: Yeah what's up with that?

Guy #1: I'm not sure but that's pretty embarrassing don't you think?

Guy#2: Yeah I do. That Blue Hatch has a "3" emblem as well as the "Axela" emblem.

Guy#1: What the fark was he thinking?

Guy#2: *Shrugs*

:AH

lol.. one of these days.. one of these days.. POW.. straight to the moon..

[Cardinal Fang]

:chuckle

[-RJ3-]

LOL!! Mazdaxela 3 =S

[RallyPlaya]

Wow First Time Reading this thread how did i miss this one bro-cardi lmfao hilarious