How do you make yourself happy?

[Ogata]

So...a question came to my mind and I'm being told I care too much for others and not love myself and put all the blame on myself even if its not my fault...how does one make themselves happy? MODDING THEIR MAZDA 3 does not count i'm afraid...No I'm not emo...I'm just trying to see how everyone copes or makes themselves feel happy if they are willing to share.

[DumpInfo]

Spending time with my girl
Dining out with friends
Dancing!!
Shopping
And Sleeping!!!

[Ogata]

Spending time with my girl
Dining out with friends
Dancing!!
Shopping
And Sleeping!!!

interesting...thats similar to what i do and it makes me happy and love myself but I guess I should have re-phrased...HOW do you love yourself?

MODS: Please edit the title...it sounds stupid but I want to know what you love about yourself that makes you who you are before loving another.

[DumpInfo]

Being confident, social, and extremely goodlooking!!! :chuckle

[stevenma188]

^ "Really Really Ridiculously Good Looking!" - Zoolander

[Dave_The_BMXER]

Riding my bike, working on one of my two blogs, friends etc.

[Thrizzl3]

the title is so misleading lmfao..should say how to keep yourself satisfied..

hanging out with the GF
watching movies
buying more mods

[fini]

Spending time with my girl


You mean Dora the explorer? :chuckle

[Ogata]

the title is so misleading lmfao..should say how to keep yourself satisfied..

hanging out with the GF
watching movies
buying more mods


Pretty much because everything i am seeing is either materialistic but i guess the enlightenment kind

[Thrizzl3]

You mean Dora the explorer? :chuckle

lmao

[MSMitch]

Do what you love
Love what you do
Don't take things personally

[MistaChin]

How do you love yourself? I'm surprised no one made a masturbation joke yet ahahahah

[Fobio]

When I was your age, it became very important for me to be comfortable with myself...25 is quarter life crisis and for me it was a realization that , "I am not going to be an astronaut when I grow up" kinda deal...

so you take inventory of what you have on the table, what matters, what doesn't anymore...pursue those things that are important and can help you on your way to your personal achievements and satisfaction and discard those things that don't help you achieve the goal you want.

it's ok to want to be better...just keep it in perspective with respect to your goals.







then you grow up again and realize that your life doesn't revolve around you. =)

I guess when you're older and married and thinking about family, it's about how your life enriches others...so by then you better have your shit together, cuz you don't have much time to spend on yourself...

[Default User]

http://www.simplegreenaction.ca/eco-tips/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/toilet_paper.jpg

makes me smile

[Thrizzl3]

http://www.simplegreenaction.ca/eco-tips/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/toilet_paper.jpg


makes me smile


lmfao

[DumpInfo]

You mean Dora the explorer? :chuckle


lmao

:chuckle - And I just happened to put 'Go Diego Go' as my avatar too...sooo uncalled for!

Ogata, don't take things seriously man enjoy the ride kinda like the 3 but better :)

[MPS]

thats it i need to open a rub and tug called happy endings =0)

[-cj-]

thats it i need to open a rub and tug called happy endings =0)

Good luck getting repeat business with those sausage fingers...

[MPS]

and now you know why you never got the job over that Asian girl :chuckle


Good luck getting repeat business with those sausage fingers...

[crystal8484]

How do you love yourself? I'm surprised no one made a masturbation joke yet ahahahah

HAHAHAHAHHAAH that's what I thought at first too!!!

[Default User]

How do you love yourself? I'm surprised no one made a masturbation joke yet ahahahah


http://www.simplegreenaction.ca/eco-tips/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/toilet_paper.jpg

makes me smile


Can be taken two ways, I guess. LOL!!

[towelsnap]

.. well to give you an honest answer.


Family/Friends/and my gf . Being with people is what makes me happy (always have been a social person) . I don't need objects/money to make me happy I make do with what I have and live for the most part a stress free life. I do like my job, and I am making progress to further myself so really right now it doesn't feel like I'm working b/c I enjoy what I do. Other things, being outdoors, sports, having some beer and watchin the game with friends, I also travel internationally a lot. If your down... or finding yourself not happy find things that make you happy, or travel and find new things to do.

Also pets, ... Love my dog she is a huge pain in my ass... destroys everything but spending time with her makes me happy to.

It's all a matter of character...... things that define you as a person are things that should make you happy. Most ppl live life for the future... I say why not live for today and enjoy it. If I was to die tomorrow I can say I've had no regrets in my life.


other things that make me happy... TP caz that's just funny hahah

my rant can easily be summed up with what MSMitch said


Do what you love
Love what you do
Don't take things personally

[mazdabetty]

chocolatteeeeeee mmmmmmmm... and Jos Louis. It takes the pain away. hahahhah

[MistaChin]

boobies make me happy

[DumpInfo]

boobies make me happy

spoken like a true pig...no complaints there! :winner

[-RJ3-]

Answering OP
When I get my own place
When I move in my own place
When I pay off my car
When I get a 3 figure salary....

So far 1/5 :chuckle

[Kappa]

two rules!

1. Dont sweat the small stuff!
2. Everything is small stuff!

:)

[stevenma188]

Answering OP
When I get my own place
When I move in my own place
When I pay off my car
When I get a 3 figure salary....

So far 1/5 :chuckle

Not aiming very high are we?

[-RJ3-]

Not aiming very high are we?

LOL I want a house near the beach too... I can only dream... 649 is calling me.

[stevenma188]

...Wait....you're talking about hourly salary?
I was thinking annually, which means you would basically be homeless....

[Kappa]

lmao ^ what color is your hair man! lol

[Thrizzl3]

ryan kills me! he's almost at those stages..just a matter of time

[Burner]

I just get drunk.

[Stoked]

well if your not happy, then keeping busy usually works, gives you time to not over think things and just enjoy your time

and if you are... well then whats the problem

so for me, buying things, going out with friends, drinking and doing anything for a good laugh

[Stoked]

oh and cod.

[Thrizzl3]

well if your not happy, then keeping busy usually works, gives you time to not over think things and just enjoy your time

and if you are... well then whats the problem

so for me, buying things, going out with friends, drinking and doing anything for a good laugh

you sound just like aristeidis:chuckle

[Stoked]

i thought this thread was really ironic, i found it right as i got into a bad mood

[Ogata]

When I was your age, it became very important for me to be comfortable with myself...25 is quarter life crisis and for me it was a realization that , "I am not going to be an astronaut when I grow up" kinda deal...

so you take inventory of what you have on the table, what matters, what doesn't anymore...pursue those things that are important and can help you on your way to your personal achievements and satisfaction and discard those things that don't help you achieve the goal you want.

it's ok to want to be better...just keep it in perspective with respect to your goals.







then you grow up again and realize that your life doesn't revolve around you. =)

I guess when you're older and married and thinking about family, it's about how your life enriches others...so by then you better have your shit together, cuz you don't have much time to spend on yourself...


Thats a nice answer...hmm maybe I shoudl think like that. Probably work is getting the best of me. My boss told me its time for me to go home and enjoy the rest of my life outside of work.

[-RJ3-]

...Wait....you're talking about hourly salary?
I was thinking annually, which means you would basically be homeless....

Heck no.. Annualy salary LOL!

[optiklenz13]

boobies make me happy

lol!!!!

[FoXy]

Shopping, eating, beer, talking to my friends, talking to my bf and some really good sex... lmao

[S.F.W.]

"... money women wine cars that shine"

[DumpInfo]

Shopping, eating, beer, talking to my friends, talking to my bf and some really good sex... lmao

Only you....hahaha

[towelsnap]

you sound just like aristeidis:chuckle

He forgot "Looks good" and a :bana or :headbang

[Kappa]

you know i bet if this thread was started on m3f it would have a different reaction.. but everyone was really sincere/funny. and no one pointed fingers and laughed.. a lot of good people on this board :)

[DumpInfo]

you know i bet if this thread was started on m3f it would have a different reaction.. but everyone was really sincere/funny. and no one pointed fingers and laughed.. a lot of good people on this board :)

Haha, what an idiot! Nah, just kidding :P

[jaimie08mazda3]

You know whats interesting.. I thought of that the other day. When you make other people happy it makes you feel happy just being there for someone at their time of need. Think about it. I love to make people laugh and when I do it makes me feel good because everyone else is feeling good right?
Oh yea beer works too, a good woman (maybe man depending on what your into LOL), your car, your family *at times they don't but truth betold they really do* and just having a positive outlook on life. Work is stressful for sure. Most jobs are. If you ever feel like you are going to go mentally insane and feel down... re-evaluate everything and take a breather looking at what can be changed to make yourself feel better about your self.






























And if that doesn't help... rubbing one off generally takes a load off LOL.

[dentinger]

big paycheck
being able to put away $500 of that paycheck for my next car
spending time with my girlfriend.
sex with my girlfriend
playing COD online, and owning
eating food.

[urbanjoe]

big paycheck
being able to put away $500 of that paycheck for my next car
spending time with my girlfriend.
sex with my girlfriend
playing COD online, and owning
eating food.

That pretty much sums it up for a lot of guys lol.

[bunchi]

i just want a good sleep....