Your Worst Breakup?

[ZeroChalk]

Hey all,

Just in the mood right now to share a personal story. You know how sometimes you feel like venting.

Well worse break-up for me is a person I've been seeing for 6 months... I think everything is going swell. Until I find out she is in a relationship (she announces to the world on facebook)... so our mutual friend's are like wow.. congrats... But she phones me today and tells me it is with some other dude she just met. wtf.

She then tells me I might see him at the house warming party this weekend. She tells me not to be angry and if I'm okay...

[hit26k]

sorry to hear about this dude! do yourself a favor and don't go to this house warming, your only going to feel worse about the whole thing.

[Thrizzl3]

a girl said to me that she couldn't be with me because she used me to get over someone and she got over them in a month and a half...what a waste of time.

[ZeroChalk]

sorry to hear about this dude! do yourself a favor and don't go to this house warming, your only going to feel worse about the whole thing.

the more and more I think about it.. the more I think she's screwed up in her mind. Why the #(*$ would she bring him. Am I suppose to concede and say good job and expect no altercation. You've just stole the girl I've been dating?

[kjmckenz]

My first serious bf and I broke up because his mother threatened to kill me if we stayed together... She was racist (him and his family are Polish... I am blk cdn)
After being together for over 2 years, she essentially said she had "enough" with this "facade" and that it needed to end...

I stopped cooking for him after that.
(added this part for lolz)

[mazidane]

the more and more I think about it.. the more I think she's screwed up in her mind. Why the #(*$ would she bring him. Am I suppose to concede and say good job and expect no altercation. You've just stole the girl I've been dating?

wow, sorry bro, I'd have to agree, not worth going to the house warming. It would be interesting to find out if this "new" guy knows about you, did she tell him about you at all?

[SomeGuy]

Hey all,

Just in the mood right now to share a personal story. You know how sometimes you feel like venting.

Well worse break-up for me is a person I've been seeing for 6 months... I think everything is going swell. Until I find out she is in a relationship (she announces to the world on facebook)... so our mutual friend's are like wow.. congrats... But she phones me today and tells me it is with some other dude she just met. wtf.

She then tells me I might see him at the house warming party this weekend. She tells me not to be angry and if I'm okay...

Seeing? bahah you were clearly smack dab in the friends zone and didn't know better, she was out bangin other dudes the entire time while you were failing at closing the deal.

[kjmckenz]

wow, sorry bro, I'd have to agree, not worth going to the house warming. It would be interesting to find out if this "new" guy knows about you, did she tell him about you at all?

Ooooh, I'd be interested in knowing this too. She could be doing the same thing with him as she's done with you (i.e. keeping you a secret from him).
But then again seeing that she asked if you'd be okay with going while he's there... It seems like she would have already told him about you...

[TokyoKiller]

This is why I never understand how the douche bags get all the nice girls that are willing to stick around even if the guy cheats on them while we the good guys get shafted with bitches (Excuse my language ladies) like this one.

Seriously, anyone care to explain? :complain

It drives me nuts :flaming

EDIT: ZC, I would avoid going to this "housewarming" party and find a few friends to hang out with, don't do something to extreme, just spend time with some friends. Your friends are the best relief in these situations, don't isolate yourself. It'll drive you nuts!

[ZeroChalk]

From what I've been told by her good friends it was some dates and it did not go anywhere from there. Could it have happened.. sure.. I don't want to meet him because I'm liable to iron out our differences.

Trust me, we were way past the friend's zone... I would have thought couple/relationship but apparently she was unhappy because i didn't define 'us' as in a relationship when a friend who had asked... just mutually exclusive. She didn't talk to me about it until today when she dropped the A-bomb. She didn't have the heart to break it to me on Sunday when we met (she was acting wierd and distant) nor could she not wait till the end of the week when my deadlines for work were done.

Screwed both ways I guess... anyways she's upset now that she has realized that she actually destroyed what she was so trying hard to get (as funny as that seems). I'm not angry.. annoyed..

[Default User]

Sorry to hear bro.
Cheaters never prosper...trust me

my worst break-up was when they both showed up at the club when I "had to work" that night.
To this day, I think that brawl is what shut down Joker Nightclub

[bunchi]

sorry to hear that bro, but it doesn't look like you were officially in a relationship anyway. don't feel bad, just let karma take care of her. it's not worth it. look at the brighter side, better that it ended now than when you're already in a serious relationship then this happened.

[Thrizzl3]

a relationship isnt anything for the first 6 mos. how long did u know her for before you made it official?

[ZeroChalk]

I dunno.. I was never in to defining things.. I told her I didn't care for all the symantics. Why is society always trying to define everything? I didn't make it official... so she decided to date someone else. I would assume she would have the respect, trust, and integrity not to... but that's just me. I guess she revealed who she was... she didn't even talk to me about "our" problems.

[bunchi]

a girl said to me that she couldn't be with me because she used me to get over someone and she got over them in a month and a half...what a waste of time.

oh Phil, congrats for being this girl'ss beeotch lol you must have done something good to her to make her get over that someone... don't feel bad too... you helped her move on :)

[prinsesa]

Hmm, never experienced a worst break up, prolly cause I was never into any of my exes, pretty sure they have stories about me though, me being an evil bitch lol

Anyways, I do have some worst after break up experiences, like exes waiting outside my house for hours + calling my home phone + adding all my friends on FB, MySPace, etc..
And the worst one I got was when he was friends with a girl who was friends with my bestfriend, so basically that girl befriended me to give him the scoop on who my latest bf was lol

[prinsesa]

I dunno.. I was never in to defining things.. I told her I didn't care for all the symantics. Why is society always trying to define everything? I didn't make it official... so she decided to date someone else. I would assume she would have the respect, trust, and integrity not to... but that's just me. I guess she revealed who she was... she didn't even talk to me about "our" problems.

Dude, you need to at least have a mutual understanding of whats going on, just because you dont want to be labelled as boy/girl friend doesnt mean she feel the same way, you have to compromise!

[Thrizzl3]

I dunno.. I was never in to defining things.. I told her I didn't care for all the symantics. Why is society always trying to define everything? I didn't make it official... so she decided to date someone else. I would assume she would have the respect, trust, and integrity not to... but that's just me. I guess she revealed who she was... she didn't even talk to me about "our" problems.

im not trying to offend you in anyway but you win some you lose some. not everyone is perfect. i'm pretty sure there are guys out there who date tons of girls before finding the right one. some relationships are long and some are short. its all part of the process.


oh Phil, congrats for being this girl'ss beeotch lol you must have done something good to her to make her get over that someone... don't feel bad too... you helped her move on :)

quiet calvin lol i was sad for a bit when that happened. glad that bitch is gone

[STeeLy]

The worse break ups for me are when the girl tries to let you down easy and failing miserably at it.

When my ex-broke up with me, I was apparently the perfect boyfriend.

Thanks, but that didn't help.

[prinsesa]

The worse break ups for me are when the girl tries to let you down easy and failing miserably at it.

When my ex-broke up with me, I was apparently the perfect boyfriend.

Thanks, but that didn't help.

When a girl tells you youre the perfect bf, I dont think thats a good sign.
Bottom line, she probably wasnt the one anyways + you were too good for her.

[bunchi]

my ex told me before to never call her again. I didn't give a **** so I did exactly what she said. 15 yrs later, she asks why the heck did I listen to her.

[STeeLy]

When a girl tells you youre the perfect bf, I dont think thats a good sign.
Bottom line, she probably wasnt the one anyways + you were too good for her.

Looking back at it... LOL I thought as much

[Soyabean]

Im lucky as I've been with mine ever since high school. We've been dating for too long as I always tell my friends.

First off sorry to hear this but it's probably best because this relationship would not have worked out in the end anyways. Its better to cut your losses although when you start your new relationship you will have to invest a great deal of money again. And yea, they never want to talk about problems. Everytime they get pissed they just assume you know. FOR REAL? Im not a psychic beotch. How the hell do i know why your mad if you dont tell me. Woman are so expensive to obtain and maintain.... This is one reason why Phil went gay so he could eliminate all these problems. lol im just kidding Phil, I know you got a gf and you like boobies (not as much as you like chicken tho I dont think)

So yea, just call out your old buddies who you probably stopped talking to in a long time because you started dating her and catch up and who knows, you may meet another one

[MistaChin]

oh Phil, congrats for being this girl'ss beeotch lol you must have done something good to her to make her get over that someone... don't feel bad too... you helped her move on :)

Phil, you stick her the buddy and made her baaaawwwl out !!!

ZC, don't worry about it. Relationships are a two-way street. It's time to drown your troubles with a couple of team pitchers.

[Thrizzl3]

Im lucky as I've been with mine ever since high school. We've been dating for too long as I always tell my friends.

First off sorry to hear this but it's probably best because this relationship would not have worked out in the end anyways. Its better to cut your losses although when you start your new relationship you will have to invest a great deal of money again. And yea, they never want to talk about problems. Everytime they get pissed they just assume you know. FOR REAL? Im not a psychic beotch. How the hell do i know why your mad if you dont tell me. Woman are so expensive to obtain and maintain.... This is one reason why Phil went gay so he could eliminate all these problems. lol im just kidding Phil, I know you got a gf and you like boobies (not as much as you like chicken tho I dont think)

So yea, just call out your old buddies who you probably stopped talking to in a long time because you started dating her and catch up and who knows, you may meet another one

thanks ben </3 * NO HOMO*


Phil, you stick her the buddy and made her baaaawwwl out !!!

ZC, don't worry about it. Relationships are a two-way street. It's time to drown your troubles with a couple of team pitchers.

i with justin on this one..for both reasons he stated lol

[ZeroChalk]

Dude, you need to at least have a mutual understanding of whats going on, just because you dont want to be labelled as boy/girl friend doesnt mean she feel the same way, you have to compromise!

I guess that's where I ultimately failed.

thanks everybody... I feel a lot better this morning. *at least that's what I keep telling myself*

Well following her advice.. I guess when and if I meet that special someone... announce it to the world (and that I will).

[wormburner]

ZeroChalk, I don't mean to downplay your grief, but 6 months is going to be a blip in history to you in a couple years. My best advice is to forget her, move on, and do things in the short term to make yourself happy (maybe some new car mods!) I'm a married man in my 30's now and I've had my share of nasty breakups. For example, I dated a girl for 3 years when I was in my early 20's. I was hopelessly in love with her. Sadly, I discovered that in the last couple months she'd been slamming a co-worker in the back of the Second Cup where she worked. I was devastated, but I moved on quickly. You see, after a girl makes it clear she's got better options, why waste your time being miserable? There are SO MANY options out there after all! :thumbsup

[Thrizzl3]

Sadly, I discovered that in the last couple months she'd been slamming a co-worker in the back of the Second Cup where she worked.

at least know not to get coffee from there again..i might be getting a second cup of something else...

[jonjon72]

Sorry to hear about that dude. Got a doozy. Went out with a woman for 2 years who I also worked with. All of a sudden she says that her ex is back in the picture. Getting back with him because of the cultural difference and how it would look in the Indian community if she married an asian guy. They got engaged and the marriage lasted 5 weeks. Three months later, I get a phone call on a Sunday evening. Needless to say, Karma is bitch. Rant over! :D

[FoXy]

That sucks buddy! but don't worry everything happens for a reason. I've had bf's where you date for a few months, 6 months, 8 months and when it ends, you are sad, you grieve the loss but eventually you get over it. This girl sounds like she didn't really care. And you dotn want to be with someone like that anyways.

You want to be with someone who thinks that you are the SHYT, someone who can't stay mad at you and enjoys every second of being with you. It will happen. Patience is key though. Nice guys don't finish last, what goes around comes around and you will find that special girl.

I've been dumped a couple times and it hurts like a bitch but time heals all wounds. Once I was dumped by a guy i was head over heels for the DAY before my bday. It blew and I cried.

Don't show her you care, it will be more of a kick in the ass for her.

[prinsesa]

I guess that's where I ultimately failed.

thanks everybody... I feel a lot better this morning. *at least that's what I keep telling myself*

Well following her advice.. I guess when and if I meet that special someone... announce it to the world (and that I will).
Yeaaaah, sorry..girls are like that..but tbh, if YOU didnt feel comfortable with what she wanted then dont go out of your way and do it. I mean, if I told my bf "OH ACCEPT MY RELATIONSHIP REQUEST ON FB"..he would be like "WHY? What's the point? We both know what's going on" LOL..

But he would go out of his way to surprise me with my favourite food or stuff toy hehe -_-' (because he feels comfortable about it and wants to do it for me)
You'll find someone better, who you will have a REAL connection with. Trusttttt me, and when that happens, dont f*** up :D

[mazda_gurl]

I have a good one.....and its just recent.

My ex girlfriend (yup its true for those who werent sure :p) and I split up 4 times over the course of 4 years. Its been 2 months since the final split and shes already banging some dude. She was a lesbian for the last 10 years and is now back to sleeping with men.

Thats an ego killer LOL....but Im over it now.

[TokyoKiller]

I have a good one.....and its just recent.

My ex girlfriend (yup its true for those who werent sure :p) and I split up 4 times over the course of 4 years. Its been 2 months since the final split and shes already banging some dude. She was a lesbian for the last 10 years and is now back to sleeping with men.

Thats an ego killer LOL....but Im over it now.

Well atleast you know it wasn't something wrong with you. She clearly doesn't know what side of the fence to sit on or is between the two...I am sure there is a reason that she stuck around with you for 4 years...(even if it's on/off) :)

[Burner]

This isn't my story, but a friends.

My buddy asked his girlfriend of 8 or so years to marry him and she accepted. They went to a hotel that night, and before anything could happen she gave him the ring back and said she couldn't do it because she has another boyfriend that she likes better.

[hit26k]

I was in a relationship for 3 years (on and off) and then things really started going downhill and I started falling out of love with her. The worst thing I've ever had to tell someone was how I no longer cared and loved someone like I used to. Man that was rough...

[TokyoKiller]

This isn't my story, but a friends.

My buddy asked his girlfriend of 8 or so years to marry him and she accepted. They went to a hotel that night, and before anything could happen she gave him the ring back and said she couldn't do it because she has another boyfriend that she likes better.

:whoa :loco

[Burner]

I was in a relationship for 3 years (on and off) and then things really started going downhill and I started falling out of love with her. The worst thing I've ever had to tell someone was how I no longer cared and loved someone like I used to. Man that was rough...

Yeah I've done that. It's really rough...

[prinsesa]

Yeah I've done that. It's really rough...

How was that tough if you didnt love the person anymore?

[mazdabetty]

How was that tough if you didnt love the person anymore?
Cuz you still love the person, you're just not "in love" with them. Doesn't mean you stop caring about them.

I've been there too, but after 6 years. Sucks.

[aZuMi]

I was in a relationship for 3 years (on and off) and then things really started going downhill and I started falling out of love with her. The worst thing I've ever had to tell someone was how I no longer cared and loved someone like I used to. Man that was rough...

I feel ya for that one..

Well, for my sad story.. I gave a girl an engagement ring, went through immigration process, she got approved...then she got scared of moving to Canada. Next thing you know, she backs out of the engagement, cancelled the wedding preparations, and cancelled immigration process. I went to the Philippines to try and understand the situation...in the end, I got the ring back and was able to sell it.

Alot more happened, but there's no point since I'm happy with my gf now.

[hit26k]

Well, for my sad story.. I gave a girl an engagement ring, went through immigration process, she got approved...then she got scared of moving to Canada. Next thing you know, she backs out of the engagement, cancelled the wedding preparations, and cancelled immigration process. I went to the Philippines to try and understand the situation...in the end, I got the ring back and was able to sell it.


damn, now thats rough...

[prinsesa]

I feel ya for that one..

Well, for my sad story.. I gave a girl an engagement ring, went through immigration process, she got approved...then she got scared of moving to Canada. Next thing you know, she backs out of the engagement, cancelled the wedding preparations, and cancelled immigration process. I went to the Philippines to try and understand the situation...in the end, I got the ring back and was able to sell it.

Alot more happened, but there's no point since I'm happy with my gf now.

At least she didnt go thru with the immigration process then break up with you when she comes to Canda and then screw you over for sponsorship support.

[Burner]

How was that tough if you didnt love the person anymore?

It's hard to watch someone that you've been with for several years completely break down.

[prinsesa]

It's hard to watch someone that you've been with for several years completely break down.

I guess I dont understand because I've never been with someone who I love for several years. I have been with my exes for 2 and 3 yrs but I never felt bad breaking up with them -_-'

[aZuMi]

At least she didnt go thru with the immigration process then break up with you when she comes to Canda and then screw you over for sponsorship support.

Yea, tell me about it. I feel like I actually dodged a bullet

[Soyabean]

I've been with mine for over 6 years. All I can say is I cant live with her but I cant live without. WHAT DO I DO??? lol

[FONZ]

ahhaha worst break up must be with this ex.

some ppl off tm3 know who it is. Because i brought her out once.

she was never happy with anything. Always putting me down, getting mad for going to meets. telling me my friends r stupid. ahahah one time, her and i went to pick out a dress for her to wear to my sis confirmation party. came down to 2 dresses. she told me to pick one, my response " you look beautifull in both dresses " snaps at me in the store, tells me off. I even offered to buy the other dress and she went even more crazy. too much.


one word to describe her. DRAMA.

[ZeroChalk]

Not my story, but my cousin's...

Dating this girl for 10 years. Finally pops the question. Relatives all book their flights. A month before the wedding he calls it off because he is seeing somone else. I fly there and we're eating at the banquet hall *having an amazing meal at the Shangri-la*with a lot of relatives and friends pretending its his birthday! I heard at one point the ex. wanted to commit suicide.

Harsh.. brutal. Damn.

[prinsesa]

ahhaha worst break up must be with this ex.

some ppl off tm3 know who it is. Because i brought her out once.

she was never happy with anything. Always putting me down, getting mad for going to meets. telling me my friends r stupid. ahahah one time, her and i went to pick out a dress for her to wear to my sis confirmation party. came down to 2 dresses. she told me to pick one, my response " you look beautifull in both dresses " snaps at me in the store, tells me off. I even offered to buy the other dress and she went even more crazy. too much.


one word to describe her. DRAMA.

WOW LOL Damn..she definitely is the definition of drama. I can be a brat sometimes but thats just crazy!!!! Id be glad that my bf would even buy me A dress lol


Not my story, but my cousin's...

Dating this girl for 10 years. Finally pops the question. Relatives all book their flights. A month before the wedding he calls it off because he is seeing somone else. I fly there and we're eating at the banquet hall *having an amazing meal at the Shangri-la*with a lot of relatives and friends pretending its his birthday! I heard at one point the ex. wanted to commit suicide.

Harsh.. brutal. Damn.
I dont get this story...the dude who proposed called it off ? And the girl wanted to commit suicide and when you guys were all at Shangrila, you were pretending that it was the dude's bday ?

[DumpInfo]

ZC, sorry to hear your pain. You can either ignore reaching the party or you take a really hot girl friend that you know and make it seem your talking to her and you don't even know she exist.

Honest to God have only had one rough breakup and that was due because it was first long relationship ever. It's definitely difficult so in some way or another I feel for you.

Just hang in there or reach a TM3 meet instead of that party.

[ZeroChalk]

WOW LOL Damn..she definitely is the definition of drama. I can be a brat sometimes but thats just crazy!!!! Id be glad that my bf would even buy me A dress lol


I dont get this story...the dude who proposed called it off ? And the girl wanted to commit suicide and when you guys were all at Shangrila, you were pretending that it was the dude's bday ?

Yes my cousin "dude" called the wedding off. His now ex-fiance was so depressed that we heard she was suicidal. Her prime was given to my cousin and she got dumped close to the alter.

Since he couldn't get out of the desposit of the banquet hall.. he decided to go ahead with it - minus the wedding. Instead he called it his 'birthday' celebration.

[ZeroChalk]

thanks Dumpinfo... one thing I realized is how supportive people are. I've also realized I was set up to ultimately fail and that we lacked communication between each other. Her going through our mutual friend to find the status and not confronting me directly shows her immaturity. That mutual friend, promising not to tell, pretty much lied.

I thought about taking someone but, no offense, I would be not better then her.

[prinsesa]

Yes my cousin "dude" called the wedding off. His now ex-fiance was so depressed that we heard she was suicidal. Her prime was given to my cousin and she got dumped close to the alter.

Since he couldn't get out of the desposit of the banquet hall.. he decided to go ahead with it - minus the wedding. Instead he called it his 'birthday' celebration.

Why would your cousin propose then bail out for another chick? =/ They were dating for 10 yrs! They were basically married already =[

[PCLoadLetter]

Just remember that things happen for a reason and everything will get better. You can't feel good if you can't feel pain.

Me and my ex broke up after 2+ years of being together and it tore me apart for a good 6 months.

[hit26k]

Just remember that things happen for a reason and everything will get better. You can't feel good if you can't feel pain.

Me and my ex broke up after 2+ years of being together and it tore me apart for a good 6 months.

+1!

[DumpInfo]

Why would your cousin propose then bail out for another chick? =/ They were dating for 10 yrs! They were basically married already =[

Correct, however sometimes the relationship is going no where and people hang on because of hope/change. Both knowing well enough that he/she isn't going to change unless something huuuge happens causing them to change instantly. (ie: fatal disease -- and sometimes that doesn't even cut it!) Then you have the one person in the relationship that seeks excitement because he/she is literally bored of there partner and then realize that another person gives them the attention and things go sour.

[DumpInfo]

ZC, I know you mentioned you and her both lacked communicating to eachother but life is learning curve and we can't all be good at what we do. So consider this a "practice run" and try not to run into the same problem again...

The whole maturity thing she'll need to learn along the way otherwise she'll get screwed over plenty of times in the future and she'll learn the hard way.

[MistaChin]

one word: SUNDOWNER

[prinsesa]

So what do you do when the relationship gets boring?
What if the person that you love is the one who's seeking excitement..?
How would you give it to them?!

[Cardinal Fang]

one word: SUNDOWNER

Back in my day it was Fantasia up in Richmond Hill.

*Fang has now dated himself*

[dentinger]

im going thru my worst breakup right now.
dated this girl for 8 months. i loved this girl to death. i did everything i could for her. took her out to dinner, movies, the cn tower, toronto beaches, zoo, whatever i could.
we got in a argument, but i didnt think much of it. i apologized, and i thought all was good.
she came over the next day, and told me the relationship wasnt working anymore. with her going to school next month 2 hours away, the long distance thing wasnt going to work.
i expected too much from her, and apparently we arent right for each other. we arent meant to be together.

is sucks, but not much i can do about it now.

[aZuMi]

im going thru my worst breakup right now.
dated this girl for 8 months. i loved this girl to death. i did everything i could for her. took her out to dinner, movies, the cn tower, toronto beaches, zoo, whatever i could.
we got in a argument, but i didnt think much of it. i apologized, and i thought all was good.
she came over the next day, and told me the relationship wasnt working anymore. with her going to school next month 2 hours away, the long distance thing wasnt going to work.
i expected too much from her, and apparently we arent right for each other. we arent meant to be together.

is sucks, but not much i can do about it now.

The breakup wherein you didn't know where it went wrong is one of the worst I think. 2 hours away isn't that far...considering my ex was in the other side of the world. Hang in there man, family and friends are always there in your lowest times. That's how I got over mine.

[chinsterr]

Sorry to hear about that ZC ... *I hope it wasn't the girl you introduced me to when we met

lol @ your cousin's crazy "b-day bash".

[prinsesa]

I think that's the worst, when you did everything for the person and they're still not satisfied.

It sucks, because, if I am with someone and I know that they did everything for an ex (that broke up with them) and they're not willing to put in the same effort as before because they think that they might get hurt is unfair. If I'm willing to put in my 100% then my partner should be doing the same thing. Of course, I wouldnt put my 100% right away, I have to trust them first and be satisfied with the fact that they are for real (and this is not done by buying me gifts, taking me on trips, etc, this is usually proven through actions and arguments)

[mazdilla]

... on a lighter note, I've been with my wife for 29 years, so my worst break up is....

... when I sold my beautiful 1971 Mustang Mach I / 351 Cobra Jet / 4 spd / Grabber Blue on white leather interior so I could do the house renovations she wanted.

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/stang_side.jpg

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/stang_rear.jpg

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/mach002.jpg

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/mach004.jpg

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/mach010.jpg

... damn, I miss that car.

http://i605.photobucket.com/albums/tt132/mazdilla/mach_I/Mach1Girl.gif

:sad

[FLIPDADY]

Sorry to hear ZC.

I got no sympathy for cheaters at all. My wife left me the day my cousin passed away. After 11 years (4 years married) and 3 kids she decides to start a new life with some lowlife. Her best friend dropped off a not while I was at work. She had use of my old 3 hatch during the day since we only had 1 car at the time. In the note was a bunch of crap and to tell me that the car was left across the street at the mall in the pouring rain with the keys attached under the rear wheel well.

Not the best time of my life back then but I'm good now. Enjoying life.

All I gotta say is karma's a bitch.:)

[SirWanker]

Back in my day it was Fantasia up in Richmond Hill.

*Fang has now dated himself*

Now that was THE place to go back then! what?

[FoXy]

I think most of us have been screwed by an ex and had our heart broken. If just makes you stronger. I will never change myself for anyone else. There is always someone out there who will love you for you and never want to change you. If someone isn't putting in the effort and doenst care then you are better off to cut your losses right then and there and move on. If a relationship is full of fighting and never gets better than that is a toxic relationship and you should get out. You are supossed to make each other feel HAPPY, not the opposite.

[horto]

+1. some good advice right there.


I think most of us have been screwed by an ex and had our heart broken. If just makes you stronger. I will never change myself for anyone else. There is always someone out there who will love you for you and never want to change you. If someone isn't putting in the effort and doenst care then you are better off to cut your losses right then and there and move on. If a relationship is full of fighting and never gets better than that is a toxic relationship and you should get out. You are supossed to make each other feel HAPPY, not the opposite.

oh, and don't forget: the best way to get over a girl, is to get under a different one! :chuckle

[bunchi]

the best way to get over a girl, is to get under a different one! :chuckle

my favorite quote for the day lol

[Cardinal Fang]

My God this thread is really starting to depress me.


Now that was THE place to go back then! what?

Oh the memories and the horror.

[FONZ]

ahhaha worst break up must be with this ex.

some ppl off tm3 know who it is. Because i brought her out once.

she was never happy with anything. Always putting me down, getting mad for going to meets. telling me my friends r stupid. ahahah one time, her and i went to pick out a dress for her to wear to my sis confirmation party. came down to 2 dresses. she told me to pick one, my response " you look beautifull in both dresses " snaps at me in the store, tells me off. I even offered to buy the other dress and she went even more crazy. too much.


one word to describe her. DRAMA.

UPDATE: I am never going to do this again, but.. my ex and I work at the same place.. it's chaotic.

Anyways, I found out that she's talking to my buddy who i've known for 2 yrs who works with us, so today i go into work, and alot of people are giving me dirty looks, I sent a text to her a while back saying " don't ever talk to me again, ur a liar, goodbye " well she decide to switch her words around, and tell people that I don't want to talk to them ever again, because I found out that she's talking to this guy at work. She's pretty racist. she doesnt go for brown guys. She's only talking to him because I'm not there to fill the gaps. Anyways, i was searching through my mac history trying to find an inbox message off of facebook.. So i kept clicking through until I was like wtf.. I never messaged this guy.. so i opened the message and read it. turns out that when my ex was at my house in June, she still had her shit saved onto my computer, which i totally forgot. so when i clicked that link, it brought up the NEW history. So you get where this is going... She talks to him on fb, lies to me. breaks up with me, and now shes going to him. meanwhile this guy is saying how he doesnt want to start shit, but i told him that he's playing with fire, because she's a nut case. I told him he can have her.

So for the next couple of days, i got to talk to these people that she talked too, and tell them the REAL story.

****in bitch.

[philipfreire]

http://media.tv20detroit.com/images/jerryspringer_320x240.jpg

wow wow.. let me set my pvr here and get the popcorn...

continue mike :)

http://www.gifbin.com/bin/052009/1241433407_fight_on_jerry_springer.gif

(ps wtf is that thing moving behind the chair.. sorry to go off topic.. ahahahahaha)

[TokyoKiller]

UPDATE: I am never going to do this again, but.. my ex and I work at the same place.. it's chaotic.

Anyways, I found out that she's talking to my buddy who i've known for 2 yrs who works with us, so today i go into work, and alot of people are giving me dirty looks, I sent a text to her a while back saying " don't ever talk to me again, ur a liar, goodbye " well she decide to switch her words around, and tell people that I don't want to talk to them ever again, because I found out that she's talking to this guy at work. She's pretty racist. she doesnt go for brown guys. She's only talking to him because I'm not there to fill the gaps. Anyways, i was searching through my mac history trying to find an inbox message off of facebook.. So i kept clicking through until I was like wtf.. I never messaged this guy.. so i opened the message and read it. turns out that when my ex was at my house in June, she still had her shit saved onto my computer, which i totally forgot. so when i clicked that link, it brought up the NEW history. So you get where this is going... She talks to him on fb, lies to me. breaks up with me, and now shes going to him. meanwhile this guy is saying how he doesnt want to start shit, but i told him that he's playing with fire, because she's a nut case. I told him he can have her.

So for the next couple of days, i got to talk to these people that she talked too, and tell them the REAL story.

****in bitch.

Damn homie! That's a nutcase with a serious case on her head. Glad you aren't with that nutcase anymore.

I am always phased at how people show their true colors after years of meaningful time spent...you think you know someone, but you really don't.

[philipfreire]

Damn homie! That's a nutcase with a serious case on her head. Glad you aren't with that nutcase anymore.

I am always phased at how people show their true colors after years of meaningful time spent...you think you know someone, but you really don't.

that's because they are both nutcases!

[hit26k]

^^ LOL!

[FONZ]

Anyways i confronted the guy today, ironically in the popcorn aisle, and he's like " broo i dont wanna start drama " i simply said, first of all, since ur tryna get with my ex, ur not my bro, so read the tag it says Michael. refer to me as that. I said to him, this could of all been avoided, if you didn't get ur dick involved, but since you started talking to her, she decided to spread shit.

here, ill break it down so you guys wil understand the situation alot better.


my ex works with this girl... well her bf is my buddy... well him and i have a friend, and that friend is the guy who's trying to go for my ex.

now this guy who's trying to get with my ex, he always knew the drama, yo bro shes soo ****ed this n that blah blah blah. So I invite him to my party next week n he said no. WHy? because he thinks im going to jump him. since i found out that he's talking to her. but little does he know, that i know about the message on fb. He only thinks that i know he added her to bbm.


the problem with her is that, shes way too spoiled. when i first met her, her and her twin sis both shared a 2007 jeep wrangler and a H3. Now she drives a 2010 subaru which daddy bought for her. If she doesnt get it her way she snaps. It's just a matter of time until he realizes it.

she always hated my mazda 3, called it a girl car, she always made fun of me for chilling at Terry Fox, but it's ironic how she's always there now. Hmmmm. Puta.

[TokyoKiller]

Anyways i confronted the guy today, ironically in the popcorn aisle, and he's like " broo i dont wanna start drama " i simply said, first of all, since ur tryna get with my ex, ur not my bro, so read the tag it says Michael. refer to me as that. I said to him, this could of all been avoided, if you didn't get ur dick involved, but since you started talking to her, she decided to spread shit.

here, ill break it down so you guys wil understand the situation alot better.


my ex works with this girl... well her bf is my buddy... well him and i have a friend, and that friend is the guy who's trying to go for my ex.

now this guy who's trying to get with my ex, he always knew the drama, yo bro shes soo ****ed this n that blah blah blah. So I invite him to my party next week n he said no. WHy? because he thinks im going to jump him. since i found out that he's talking to her. but little does he know, that i know about the message on fb. He only thinks that i know he added her to bbm.


the problem with her is that, shes way too spoiled. when i first met her, her and her twin sis both shared a 2007 jeep wrangler and a H3. Now she drives a 2010 subaru which daddy bought for her. If she doesnt get it her way she snaps. It's just a matter of time until he realizes it.

she always hated my mazda 3, called it a girl car, she always made fun of me for chilling at Terry Fox, but it's ironic how she's always there now. Hmmmm. Puta.

People make fun because they are jealous. Unlike her, you have friends to chill with at Terry Fox, and can afford your own car (girl car or not) unlike her.

[FONZ]

well her parents bought it, and now shes just paying them off slowly. But man, if i showed u who she was, u wuldnt think shes a nut case. all looks on the outside, chaotic in the inside.

[TokyoKiller]

well her parents bought it, and now shes just paying them off slowly. But man, if i showed u who she was, u wuldnt think shes a nut case. all looks on the outside, chaotic in the inside.

Don't mind me asking...do you work at a grocery store? Just wondering since you said Popcorn aisle lol.

[FONZ]

Don't mind me asking...do you work at a grocery store? Just wondering since you said Popcorn aisle lol.

Walmart super center

[TokyoKiller]

Walmart super center

Mmmmmmmm. Time to pay a visit! Haha. I don't go to Terry Fox anymore...its so bait.

[DumpInfo]

I'm just amazed at some of the stuff people are actually going thru here. I know we never talk about it here simply because were too focused on your rides or our newest mods but WOW :whoa

(@princesa) I know you asked a while back when your other is seeking excitement because there bored of there partner. What I can tell you is work at it like anything in this world. I'm no Dr. Phil but nothing is easy in life...and if it is too easy then it's simply fake.

Anyone else going thru any more f'd up situations? Please tell :)

[prinsesa]

Walmart super center

I can walk to your Walmart! Haha. Well it might take me long lol but its doable.
Looks can be deceiving dude!!

I have a funny story for Walmart..lol.
I was at the supercentre at maybe 10:30pm (lol) looking for a nail polish since I suddenly got the urge to change my nail color.

I was in all black (black top + yoga pants) and I was carrying my pink lanyard.
This dude comes to me and asks me where the chips are?!
I gave him the WORST "WTF?!?!?!" look and told him I dont work there (For clarification, its not like Im ashamed to work there, but just cause, I didnt think I looked like an employee lol I didnt even have the vest PLUS my PINK lanyard has my car/house keys attached to it and it says 'princess' on it lol)
He was so taken aback, he was stumbling and he was pointing to my lanyard saying "oh I just thought because you had that"
I gave him another wtf look and walked away -_-


I'm just amazed at some of the stuff people are actually going thru here. I know we never talk about it here simply because were too focused on your rides or our newest mods but WOW :whoa

(@princesa) I know you asked a while back when your other is seeking excitement because there bored of there partner. What I can tell you is work at it like anything in this world. I'm no Dr. Phil but nothing is easy in life...and if it is too easy then it's simply fake.

Anyone else going thru any more f'd up situations? Please tell :)

My ex from five years ago is still in love with me, he's in the Philippines right now..and when I moved to Canada, he was heart broken.
He gave up an opportunity to move to Italy just because "I want to be here when ______ (me) comes back for a vacation" (I havent gone back yet)
Now, he messages me and tells me that in a year's time, he will be able to see me because he worked in the Middle East and will be completing his contract and he'll have enough $$ to move here.
I feel bad, but it wasnt meant to be with him..I'm probably his worst break up ever lol
With how he literally stalked my friends back home asking for info on where I was and who I was dating, etc. he was way too much..He even went to my relatives' house when a family member passed away..
He actually got a girl pregnant, but is not with her anymore..this girl also tried talking to me and asked me how she can make him love her -_-
At one point, he told me "Hey maybe I should name my baby after you"..I kinda freaked out on him when he said that.

[FONZ]

I can walk to your Walmart! Haha. Well it might take me long lol but its doable.
Looks can be deceiving dude!!

I have a funny story for Walmart..lol.
I was at the supercentre at maybe 10:30pm (lol) looking for a nail polish since I suddenly got the urge to change my nail color.

I was in all black (black top + yoga pants) and I was carrying my pink lanyard.
This dude comes to me and asks me where the chips are?!
I gave him the WORST "WTF?!?!?!" look and told him I dont work there (For clarification, its not like Im ashamed to work there, but just cause, I didnt think I looked like an employee lol I didnt even have the vest PLUS my PINK lanyard has my car/house keys attached to it and it says 'princess' on it lol)
He was so taken aback, he was stumbling and he was pointing to my lanyard saying "oh I just thought because you had that"
I gave him another wtf look and walked away -_-


Were you sittin on the ground by any chance?

[Riftler]

My ex from five years ago is still in love with me, he's in the Philippines right now..and when I moved to Canada, he was heart broken.
He gave up an opportunity to move to Italy just because "I want to be here when ______ (me) comes back for a vacation" (I havent gone back yet)
Now, he messages me and tells me that in a year's time, he will be able to see me because he worked in the Middle East and will be completing his contract and he'll have enough $$ to move here.
I feel bad, but it wasnt meant to be with him..I'm probably his worst break up ever lol
With how he literally stalked my friends back home asking for info on where I was and who I was dating, etc. he was way too much..He even went to my relatives' house when a family member passed away..
He actually got a girl pregnant, but is not with her anymore..this girl also tried talking to me and asked me how she can make him love her -_-
At one point, he told me "Hey maybe I should name my baby after you"..I kinda freaked out on him when he said that.

OMG My cousin is going through some scary shit like that too....man when she told me the story about this guy is going nuts calling her everday for two years now (and on-going)....sometimes....i just wonder how people do it....

[crystal8484]

This thread is the exact reason why I've chosen to be single for the last 3 years. NOOOO headaches and crazy people!!! It's been wonderful. :D

[SirWanker]

My simple rules:

Rule#1: NEVER stick it in the crazy.

Rule#2: Keep an open relationship as variation goes a long way.

Rule#3: See Rule#1

[ZeroChalk]

This thread is the exact reason why I've chosen to be single for the last 3 years. NOOOO headaches and crazy people!!! It's been wonderful. :D

it's all worth it once you find the right one... so they say.

More to my story after this weekend. It should be epic... I think.

[laksman91]

ZC: Go to that party. Bring a hot chick. Hire an escort if needed. And show her up, and then never see her again

[DumpInfo]

@princesa -- WTF, talk about messed up!! How do you manage to get the psycho ones? Gladly, I don't have that problem actually not to that degree that I can say. I'd suggest you call this guy once and for all and say you got married so leave me the F alone :)



This thread is the exact reason why I've chosen to be single for the last 3 years. NOOOO headaches and crazy people!!! It's been wonderful. :D

3 years is a freakin looong time unless you just got out of a 3+ year relationship then that I can give you...but then again don't wait too long as your clock is ticking :P

I always believed I'd get married around 40 or something simply because I always loved doing my own thing (hooking up and all...) anyways got married this year and wow does it ever change things! It's the best and just seeing her smile makes me wanna hug her to death *sniff sniff* :P

[prinsesa]

@princesa -- WTF, talk about messed up!! How do you manage to get the psycho ones? Gladly, I don't have that problem actually not to that degree that I can say. I'd suggest you call this guy once and for all and say you got married so leave me the F alone :)


I wish! He keeps tabs on me so I cant even lie about that.
I had a friend for 2-3 years, and I didnt know she was spying on me for him!
She fessed up cause she was dying (literally..she had a hole in her heart)


ZC: What kind of girl would your ex be jealous of? lol.

[DumpInfo]

I wish! He keeps tabs on me so I cant even lie about that.
I had a friend for 2-3 years, and I didnt know she was spying on me for him!
She fessed up cause she was dying (literally..she had a hole in her heart)

hahah that's awful! Some friend huh? Talk about a creeper!


ZC: What kind of girl would your ex be jealous of? lol.

That's an easy one....a HOTTER girl then his EX!

[aZuMi]

I wish! He keeps tabs on me so I cant even lie about that.
I had a friend for 2-3 years, and I didnt know she was spying on me for him!
She fessed up cause she was dying (literally..she had a hole in her heart)


ZC: What kind of girl would your ex be jealous of? lol.

Wow, your ex is pretty screwed up...on a side note, people in the Philippines loves to gossip and create drama...
That's why I won't be back there anytime soon.

[dentinger]

The breakup wherein you didn't know where it went wrong is one of the worst I think. 2 hours away isn't that far...considering my ex was in the other side of the world. Hang in there man, family and friends are always there in your lowest times. That's how I got over mine.

the long distnace thing wasnt a problem to me. we did it before, but she'd only be gone for 3 days at a time. this would have been 2 weeks at least at a time. she always said i loved her more than she loved me, so i guess i should have paid more attention. there isnt much i can really do anymore. i just want her to be happy.

this worst part of all of this, is my sister, my closest friend, goes to school 2.5 hours away in a few weeks too. and a few weeks after that, my car's lease is up.
im really hoping my next car will cheer me up. i feel so lost right now.

[prinsesa]

the long distnace thing wasnt a problem to me. we did it before, but she'd only be gone for 3 days at a time. this would have been 2 weeks at least at a time. she always said i loved her more than she loved me, so i guess i should have paid more attention. there isnt much i can really do anymore. i just want her to be happy.

this worst part of all of this, is my sister, my closest friend, goes to school 2.5 hours away in a few weeks too. and a few weeks after that, my car's lease is up.
im really hoping my next car will cheer me up. i feel so lost right now.
lets help you pick your next car !! haha :D

i always tell my bf i love him more than he loves me lol uh oh lmao

[FoXy]

My bf and I do a long distance thing... if you wanna call it that. We see each other on weekends and stuff. I have no problem with is as we are both so busy during the week anyways with working, sports, gym, friends, etc etc that we probably wouldnt see each other that much anyways.

Guess it just depends how much you care about the other person.

For every 5 shitty relationships you might have 1 good one. Thats life. You can't measure your own person happiness based on a relationship. Thats when you get problems.

[dentinger]

lets help you pick your next car !! haha :D


2003 volkwagen 20th anniversary edition gti.
normal gti, with stock recaro interior, 18"s, votex lip kit, 6 spd close ratio trannsmission. aww yea.

im just going to miss my mazda3. it was technically my first car, and it's been thru alot in my life. im going to miss it.

[TokyoKiller]

2003 volkwagen 20th anniversary edition gti.
normal gti, with stock recaro interior, 18"s, votex lip kit, 6 spd close ratio trannsmission. aww yea.

im just going to miss my mazda3. it was technically my first car, and it's been thru alot in my life. im going to miss it.

I have a feeling you'll be back to Zoom-Zoom in the future =).

[prime]

Why do girls always say that!?
"I love you more than you love me"
How do you know? It's all in your head...

/rant

[TokyoKiller]

This thread is the exact reason why I've chosen to be single for the last 3 years. NOOOO headaches and crazy people!!! It's been wonderful. :D

CHA CHING.

Seriously though, I've had my share of fun...but I haven't had a long term relationship yet because I just don't feel like its the right time of my life. I've seen enough bullshit and helped a lot of friends through their down times, so I know works of relationships at this point. I've been left disappointed many times and sometimes I've had my heart put down and feeling like shit because a girl used me or something (Those are the worst.)

Although I am soon to be 21 (a month from now), I think its better to focus on my education and career, involving myself in any serious relationship during this time can EFF me up big time because when I get hurt it effects me all around, and I don't need to compromise education and career for love or whatever...you only get one chance at certain things and education is one of them, love on the other hand will come at the right time.

[m_bisson]

in the winter two years ago I started dating this girl. We fell in love blah blah blah then she broke up with me on valentine's day. That was in 2008. We kept seeing each other on/off right up until last fall. Worst part of that breakup was that it took so damn long. Having feelings for her, then thinking it's over only to have her come running back to me was pretty tough.

I guess I was stupid to keep going back though. She'd get all angry and hurtful and tell me about how great the "new guy" is, then come knocking on the door at my parents house wearing blue jeans/ winter jacket/ shoes and a black eye because the "new guy" started to beat her up during sex and she didn't have time to get all her stuff. I felt sorry for her and didn't have the heart to make her leave.

I've learned my lesson from that but I find now that it's hard for me to get close to girls and trust them. It's been a few months I saw emily last, and I can finally say that I'm over her.

[hit26k]

Although I am soon to be 21 (a month from now), I think its better to focus on my education and career, involving myself in any serious relationship during this time can EFF me up big time because when I get hurt it effects me all around, and I don't need to compromise education and career for love or whatever...you only get one chance at certain things and education is one of them, love on the other hand will come at the right time.

I agree. I don't think I would have been established in my career if I was still in that relationship. I'm only 21, I'm in no rush to find love.

That being said, ZC, hold your head up and keep doing what your doing. Everything happens for a reason and the right girl will come along in time!

[prinsesa]

CHA CHING.

Seriously though, I've had my share of fun...but I haven't had a long term relationship yet because I just don't feel like its the right time of my life. I've seen enough bullshit and helped a lot of friends through their down times, so I know works of relationships at this point. I've been left disappointed many times and sometimes I've had my heart put down and feeling like shit because a girl used me or something (Those are the worst.)

Although I am soon to be 21 (a month from now), I think its better to focus on my education and career, involving myself in any serious relationship during this time can EFF me up big time because when I get hurt it effects me all around, and I don't need to compromise education and career for love or whatever...you only get one chance at certain things and education is one of them, love on the other hand will come at the right time.

Whens your birthday?!?! Im turning 21 too!!

Im a hopeless romantic, been trying to find prince charming since I was 15. And maybe Im overdoing it sometimes, and trying to make the other person the one for me but I know I'm wrong by doing that.

@Prime its true though -_-' for some odd reason, imo, guys dont know how to show their feelings

[horto]

lol. YES! +11111111111111

I've done this before. It is truly epic.


ZC: Go to that party. Bring a hot chick. Hire an escort if needed. And show her up, and then never see her again

Note: Wasn't an escort. :P

[Riftler]

@Prime its true though -_-' for some odd reason, imo, guys dont know how to show their feelings

LOL I had this discussion at my work place like 2 years ago and the whole work place got involved about how "girls are complicated cuz of theirr emotions" and hhow "guys are complicated cuz we don't show emotion" pretty funny and interesting discussion.

In the end it came down to "guys are complicated because of our pride" and "girls ARE complicated cuz of theirr emotions"

...Or ssomething like that

[prinsesa]

LOL I had this discussion at my work place like 2 years ago and the whole work place got involved about how "girls are complicated cuz of theirr emotions" and hhow "guys are complicated cuz we don't show emotion" pretty funny and interesting discussion.

In the end it came down to "guys are complicated because of our pride" and "girls ARE complicated cuz of theirr emotions"

...Or ssomething like that

Wow I think that may sum it up. lol.

[SirWanker]

Many summers ago, a friend threw a party which had a large number of exchange students attending ( his parents were hosts for an English immersion program). It was pretty cool mingling with all these students from around the world such as Japan, Spain, Germany, Switzerland, Mexico...etc. Anyways all of my friends were hitting on this really cute blonde and striking out big time. Me, on the other hand, acknowledged her presence but pretty much kept to myself. Funny thing was, she approached me and we spent the entire evening talking, laughing, immensely enjoying each other's company. Before we knew it, the month was finished and she went home but not before making me promise to visit her next year in Europe.

We wrote to each other frequently ( hey it was pre-email days people) and sent small but thoughtful gifts back and forth; each letter ending with t'aime beaucoup. I buckled down and learned a new language in hopes of being able to better communicate with her. The next summer took ages to come but it finally came. When I saw her again, my feelings were just as strong as they were from the previous summer. Unfortunately it was ultimately not mutual. It turned out she just met another guy several months prior to my arrival and she had to make a decision between me or him. Local boy won but not by much ( according to her).

I finally understand and accept the why. It still hurts sometimes when I recall that summer but it was worth it, that feeling of being alive.

[ZeroChalk]

I wish! He keeps tabs on me so I cant even lie about that.
I had a friend for 2-3 years, and I didnt know she was spying on me for him!
She fessed up cause she was dying (literally..she had a hole in her heart)


ZC: What kind of girl would your ex be jealous of? lol.

Easy...

- smarter
- more attractive / taller
- more life accomplishments / well travelled
- excellent career

[prinsesa]

Go clubbing, it will ease the pain -.-
I know I'm going tonight!


Easy...

- smarter
- more attractive / taller
- more life accomplishments / well travelled
- excellent career
I would ask my friends lol But they are not tall at all ahaha We're all asians =P
I have other non-asian friends, of course, but they wont be that open to the idea lol

[aZuMi]

Better that you tried than never trying at all. These things build character and make you stronger.. I'm sure you know that by now


Many summers ago, a friend threw a party which had a large number of exchange students attending ( his parents were hosts for an English immersion program). It was pretty cool mingling with all these students from around the world such as Japan, Spain, Germany, Switzerland, Mexico...etc. Anyways all of my friends were hitting on this really cute blonde and striking out big time. Me, on the other hand, acknowledged her presence but pretty much kept to myself. Funny thing was, she approached me and we spent the entire evening talking, laughing, immensely enjoying each other's company. Before we knew it, the month was finished and she went home but not before making me promise to visit her next year in Europe.

We wrote to each other frequently ( hey it was pre-email days people) and sent small but thoughtful gifts back and forth; each letter ending with t'aime beaucoup. I buckled down and learned a new language in hopes of being able to better communicate with her. The next summer took ages to come but it finally came. When I saw her again, my feelings were just as strong as they were from the previous summer. Unfortunately it was ultimately not mutual. It turned out she just met another guy several months prior to my arrival and she had to make a decision between me or him. Local boy won but not by much ( according to her).

I finally understand and accept the why. It still hurts sometimes when I recall that summer but it was worth it, that feeling of being alive.

[aZuMi]

How old are you? Height? Maybe princesa can even hook you up (even though she states her friends are shorter, lol:chuckle


Easy...

- smarter
- more attractive / taller
- more life accomplishments / well travelled
- excellent career

[prinsesa]

How old are you? Height? Maybe princesa can even hook you up (even though she states her friends are shorter, lol:chuckle

We are from 4'11 (lol) to 5'4 :D ahaha
Only one person is 5'4 lol...


@SirWanker That sounds like a really nice story..I love writing and receiving letters. At least that didnt end up a nasty break up..

[x_o_k_x]

we broke up in Miami first day there. Worst part was I had to live with her for 7 days and go back same plane.. We havent spoken at all, very akward and worst vacation ever!!

[MAZDA Kitten]

^^ Ouch... why wouldnt you save the breaking up till you got back from vaycay?

[prinsesa]

we broke up in Miami first day there. Worst part was I had to live with her for 7 days and go back same plane.. We havent spoken at all, very akward and worst vacation ever!!

You guys mustve hated each other so bad if you both didnt even make up during a Miami vacation O_O Dont tell me you shared 1 king sized bed too!

[x_o_k_x]

You guys mustve hated each other so bad if you both didnt even make up during a Miami vacation O_O Dont tell me you shared 1 king sized bed too!

lmao no we happend to have 2 beds in the room, i dont know why she suddenly changed.. Lesson learned not paying for girls spend 2 grand on this trip

She decided it'll be better to do it in Miami.. wtf!! She then told me she needs to figure out what she wants..

[prinsesa]

lmao no we happend to have 2 beds in the room, i dont know why she suddenly changed.. Lesson learned not paying for girls spend 2 grand on this trip

She decided it'll be better to do it in Miami.. wtf!! She then told me she needs to figure out what she wants..

Cant even make my boyfriend take me on any trip at all.
It's her loss, 2 grand is a lot, I wouldve came back to the hotel with two girls to be in the same bedroom as your ex. And make her listen to your crazy sex. Lol.

[x_o_k_x]

Cant even make my boyfriend take me on any trip at all.
It's her loss, 2 grand is a lot, I wouldve came back to the hotel with two girls to be in the same bedroom as your ex. And make her listen to your crazy sex. Lol.

haha that just kinda made my day

[SirWanker]

@SirWanker That sounds like a really nice story..I love writing and receiving letters. At least that didnt end up a nasty break up..

With email/social networking sites these days, the art of hand-writing a letter is almost gone.
Relatively speaking, it could have been. I was introduced to the guy when we went to a street party @ her hometown. He was yapping to his friends and she asked me to dance, nothing slow, a waltz. The prick came up behind me pretending to tap me on the shoulder while kidney punching with his other fist.
I could have fought him but it was a no-win situation as I was out-numbered by his militia-friends.

[aZuMi]

With email/social networking sites these days, the art of hand-writing a letter is almost gone.
Relatively speaking, it could have been. I was introduced to the guy when we went to a street party @ her hometown. He was yapping to his friends and she asked me to dance, nothing slow, a waltz. The prick came up behind me pretending to tap me on the shoulder while kidney punching with his other fist.
I could have fought him but it was a no-win situation as I was out-numbered by his militia-friends.

Hmm...good call on that. Where is this place btw?

[SirWanker]

Hmm...good call on that. Where is this place btw?
Vendlincourt, Switzerland

[philipfreire]

it all comes down to females and their insecurities. and in some cases, guys and their insecurities.

[ZeroChalk]

Go clubbing, it will ease the pain -.-
I know I'm going tonight!


I would ask my friends lol But they are not tall at all ahaha We're all asians =P
I have other non-asian friends, of course, but they wont be that open to the idea lol

Much appreciated for the thoughts.

I'm heading out tonight to the bars. Tomorrow, I hopefully see this new girl that my sister for the longest time has been trying to set up with me. Sunday I got a shmooze roof top pool party so maybe I can surround myself with new people.

All is not lost... In terms of timing she picked the right weekend. Well deserved rest considering the hard deadlines at work and stress of our breakup.

I'm 5'10 looking to settle.

[TokyoKiller]

Whens your birthday?!?! Im turning 21 too!!

Im a hopeless romantic, been trying to find prince charming since I was 15. And maybe Im overdoing it sometimes, and trying to make the other person the one for me but I know I'm wrong by doing that.

@Prime its true though -_-' for some odd reason, imo, guys dont know how to show their feelings

Turn 21 on September 11th. =)

I know how to show my feelings, once I trust you.

[Fuman]

to the person asking why girls date douchebags and not the sweet guy waiting for her.
Answer: Douchebags represents a challenge, where as she can have that 'sweet guy' whenever she wants. In other words, the sweet guy lacks the alpha-male quality.

This was in a reddit picture awhile back, I tried searching for it but can't find it

[FONZ]

Anyways, time to put some positive info in this thread!

My 21st Birthday is coming up on the 21st, however, I decided to go to Zu Bar night club on the Fri night. Some people off of here are joining in. It's going to be one hell of a bash. So REACH!!!

[crystal8484]

Anyways, time to put some positive info in this thread!

My 21st Birthday is coming up on the 21st, however, I decided to go to Zu Bar night club on the Fri night. Some people off of here are joining in. It's going to be one hell of a bash. So REACH!!!

I feel so old... lol 21?!

[Impressive]

LOL FONZ will be breaking up with alcohol for a long time after the 20th I'll tell you that much right now. Heck I'm still a bit drunk from last night...& I'm stuck at work. Fml...I'll post my worst break up story after work.

TM3 zu bar meet!!! Parking lot pimpin' yo!

[TokyoKiller]

Anyways, time to put some positive info in this thread!

My 21st Birthday is coming up on the 21st, however, I decided to go to Zu Bar night club on the Fri night. Some people off of here are joining in. It's going to be one hell of a bash. So REACH!!!

I am lost...when is this happening?!

[TokyoKiller]

I feel so old... lol 21?!

Yes ma'am, you heard right, 21.

I am guessing you are born in 1984?

[prinsesa]

Zu Bar in Burlington? So far -.-

[TokyoKiller]

Zu Bar in Burlington? So far -.-

LOL. Just cause you don't drive on the highway it don't make it far sweet heart =). Or did that change?

[prinsesa]

LOL. Just cause you don't drive on the highway it don't make it far sweet heart =). Or did that change?


Its STILL kinda far thouuugh right? Farther than Sauga->Toronto DT.
Why not Toronto clubs/bars? lol Not trying to change the venue here =P But who is in Burlington? =P

[TokyoKiller]

Its STILL kinda far thouuugh right? Farther than Sauga->Toronto DT.
Why not Toronto clubs/bars? lol Not trying to change the venue here =P But who is in Burlington? =P

The quality of the venue makes a big difference. Zu Bar is pretty good IMO. Where are you located?!

[DumpInfo]

I feel so old... lol 21?!

:chuckle, and how might that be? :)

[pacmann33]

I've been with mine for over 6 years. All I can say is I cant live with her but I cant live without. WHAT DO I DO??? lol

I feel you on that one!!! 6 years this December. Long enough for her to know how and where to find my buttons...AND press them LOL!!!

[zoso]

My worst breakup
Been with my ex for just over 6 years, had it's ups and downs, but we managed to settle down and was given an apt her parents rented out, i spent months along with some help the father hired renovating the place. Put my heart and soul into that place, I did all the touch up work on the trim and molding, (couldn't even tell the guy nailed it in, even he couldn't believe how good it looked) painted ceiling and walls stained all the trim, build the cabinets, put in new flooring and some other minor stuff. at the end of the year we are told my uncle has 3-6 months to live, so i spend money i saved up to send my dad right away then i left a few weeks later. I told her parents i leaving first so they don't makes plans for the handyman to come in and work in the apt when i'm not there (plumbing) and they tell my GF before i could, she starts fighting with me non-stop till i leave. Even when i came over for new years (leaving 10AM the same morn) she didn't wish me a happy new years just yelled at me.
I get to south america, talk to her the first night everything is "cool" now she's acting normal. next morn we leave to go to my uncles farm for a few days come back, my dad is using my comp to talk to my step mom, ex thinks i'm ignoring her, then when i do come on she fights then breaks up with me and doesn't talk to me for the 2 weeks i'm still there for. In that time i spend alot of time with my family and cousins and some of their friends (one of which i had a thing for when we were younger, 12 years old) but other then that we got along great, she thought i still liked her, so i e-mailed her saying i do but not in a way i would have a relationship with just to hang out. she helped me come to terms with the breakup and offered some advice. Gf found the e-mails and the pictures of me with my bro and cousins at a club, and freaked out when i got back, of course i'm puzzled since she broke up with me and didn't talk to me for the 2 weeks i needed her the most.
She took it pretty bad when she realized i was ready to walk but in respect for the last 6 years i agreed to work things out with her, this wasn't a wound that will heal over night, unfortunately her parents kept pestering us to do that. a week after i get back my uncle dies, but instead of trying to comfort me (which i needed, i left my whole family there it was just me in Canada because of my job) she kept fighting over and over again about the same bullshit. Last time i talked to her she pretty much told me she wants to know if i want her cause she has other offers, so i told her if you are that interested in other guys go ahead, i'm dealing with enough and don't need that shit. never called me back nothing.
So i got a ton of free time, returned the ring i got her, and bought my 3 a month later

At least i spend more time in my 3...hehe

[zoso]

same 6 years, mine ended up proving to me should never be there for me, and thats all i needed, if you read my post that i posted, if she couldn't be there for me while going through a death in the family how could i count on her for anything less

[zoso]

I feel you on that one!!! 6 years this December. Long enough for her to know how and where to find my buttons...AND press them LOL!!!

Sorry ment to put this above quote in

[iconicrocket]

Back in my day it was Fantasia up in Richmond Hill.

*Fang has now dated himself*

+ 1

I think they had Million Dollar Saloon and Runway 69 back then too.

[FONZ]

I am lost...when is this happening?!

My actual birthday is Sat August 21st. But seeing that Zu bar is on Fri night, I'll be leaving that club the morning of my birthday :) u know ur down son.

[FONZ]

I feel so old... lol 21?!

yuuupppp! 21 is right. Heck, I don't even look my age to begin with. :chuckle

[Thrizzl3]

yuuupppp! 21 is right. Heck, I don't even look my age to begin with. :chuckle

ya because you look 28...

[hit26k]

ya because you look 28...

for real, I thought you were at least 26 when I first met you. lol

[DumpInfo]

yuuupppp! 21 is right. Heck, I don't even look my age to begin with. :chuckle


ya because you look 28...

:chuckle

[FONZ]

ya because you look 28...

LOL! I remember when she said that, I was like WTF.

[prinsesa]

people say i look older for my age too, but not 28 lol

[FONZ]

Do not ask me why some people look funny in this pic, as I have no clue why they did it.

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs461.ash1/25336_389562296181_501596181_3838711_2854116_n.jpg

I'm the one in the middle. Phillis is just mad because he can't even pass for a 19 yr old. :chuckle


Dan - Look its your boy! aahahahah

[TokyoKiller]

Do not ask me why some people look funny in this pic, as I have no clue why they did it.

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs461.ash1/25336_389562296181_501596181_3838711_2854116_n.jpg

I'm the one in the middle. Phillis is just mad because he can't even pass for a 19 yr old. :chuckle


Dan - Look its your boy! aahahahah

Dude, is your whole group born in 1989? I am the same birth year as you, and I think you look way older than our age group lol.

[prinsesa]

All the people in that picture look OLDER than me. I'm '89 baby.

[Thrizzl3]

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs461.ash1/25336_389562296181_501596181_3838711_2854116_n.jpg



LMFAO! this pic is priceless...

wtf..this thread got off topic so quickly....

[Impressive]

Its STILL kinda far thouuugh right? Farther than Sauga->Toronto DT.
Why not Toronto clubs/bars? lol Not trying to change the venue here =P But who is in Burlington? =P

Not a chance. It's a lot closer, but then again, if you live on the sauga/etobicoke boarder it'll be the opposite.

[prinsesa]

Nah, I'm on McLaughlin/Mavis road so I'm in the middle but just a wee bit closer to Milton. =)

Sorry, I guess the whole age thing just changed the topic lol
I would share one but I think it's too soon -.-

[FONZ]

Dude, is your whole group born in 1989? I am the same birth year as you, and I think you look way older than our age group lol.

nope! I'm the second youngest in that pack.

anymore break up stories?

[dentinger]

i have a "psycho ex" story..... haha

[hit26k]

i have a "psycho ex" story..... haha

do tell :)

[dentinger]

alright, here goes haha

i dated this one girl for jsut over 6 months. she had anxiety, OCD, agoraphobia, etc etc. very rarely left her house.
it was cool at first, but got annoying, couldnt take her anywhere, cuz she's get a panic attack. i couldnt come over when she was anxious, cuz she needed to be alone. whatever.
i tried to support her the bext i could, but i can only do so much before i give up.
note: during our relationship, i bought a fishtank, to help keep her mind off things. i told her when we broke up, im taking the fish tank with me.

so, after a couple break ups (arguments that ended with "you know what? its over. good bye", and soon followed with "im sorry, please come over")
anyways, i finally had enough of it, and i broke up with her.
alll was good for 2 weeks, until she texted me.
"i want the fishtank back. so if you would please bring it over asap, and get on with your life, that would be great. thanks"
me being me, i tell her to go F*** herself

long story short, my friends got involved, and so did hers, and the snowball effect started.
threats all over the place. it was messy. phone calls, texts, messages, etc etc.
my ex coming over to give everything i bought her back.

so, im gettig pissed off, so i was talking to her sister, and i said "im going to kill half your family. sorry."
her dad saw that, and flipped, and showed up at my door. he says "delete everything, and drop it, or im calling the cops"
so i did.
half an hour later, my crazy ex texts me, saying "btw, we called the cops. have fun."
apparently her mom decided she would call the cops anyways.

great.
so, the cops come over, almost arrest me, etc etc etc.
great fun.

she still tries to befriend me to this day. and when i accept her friend request on fb, she goes nuts on me againn and loses her mind.
it was entertaining for a while, but it just got annoying.

[TokyoKiller]

alright, here goes haha

i dated this one girl for jsut over 6 months. she had anxiety, OCD, agoraphobia, etc etc. very rarely left her house.
it was cool at first, but got annoying, couldnt take her anywhere, cuz she's get a panic attack. i couldnt come over when she was anxious, cuz she needed to be alone. whatever.
i tried to support her the bext i could, but i can only do so much before i give up.
note: during our relationship, i bought a fishtank, to help keep her mind off things. i told her when we broke up, im taking the fish tank with me.

so, after a couple break ups (arguments that ended with "you know what? its over. good bye", and soon followed with "im sorry, please come over")
anyways, i finally had enough of it, and i broke up with her.
alll was good for 2 weeks, until she texted me.
"i want the fishtank back. so if you would please bring it over asap, and get on with your life, that would be great. thanks"
me being me, i tell her to go F*** herself

long story short, my friends got involved, and so did hers, and the snowball effect started.
threats all over the place. it was messy. phone calls, texts, messages, etc etc.
my ex coming over to give everything i bought her back.

so, im gettig pissed off, so i was talking to her sister, and i said "im going to kill half your family. sorry."
her dad saw that, and flipped, and showed up at my door. he says "delete everything, and drop it, or im calling the cops"
so i did.
half an hour later, my crazy ex texts me, saying "btw, we called the cops. have fun."
apparently her mom decided she would call the cops anyways.

great.
so, the cops come over, almost arrest me, etc etc etc.
great fun.

she still tries to befriend me to this day. and when i accept her friend request on fb, she goes nuts on me againn and loses her mind.
it was entertaining for a while, but it just got annoying.

Uhhh. :whoa :loco

I gotta say though, you need to know what methods to use to say things that are "threatening" but you don't mean (we all say a thing or two that we don't mean we we are parting with someone we love), verbally you can get away with but email and text messaging...that's evidence right there.

Not that threatening someone is OK, but I am just saying, if you need to vent and say whatever calms you down, choose the right method to communicate it without getting your self in trouble.

[dentinger]

yea, looking back on it, it wasnt the smartest idea. but still, she over reacted alot, over something so minor.
and i got really stressed over it, so i did lose my cool. but oh well, its in the past, its done and over with, and i never want to go thru that again.

[prinsesa]

Wow, that's pretty crazy =/
But I am kind of guilty of also over reacting over something small too, but only if the person is still my bf, if we're over then Im not in the place to be mad, jealous or overreact.

The cops got involved in my past relationship too. I'm still scared to talk about it cause the ex really creeps me out, I didnt know he was like that until I actually put my foot down and broke up with him officially. I was scared as hell when I reported him to the cops just 'cause he knew where I lived and he drives by, waits for me, etc. It was scary. But after the cop spoke to him, everything was a-ok. I was seriously scared for my life..I didnt know what this dude could do.

[melissa]

alright, here goes haha

i dated this one girl for jsut over 6 months. she had anxiety, OCD, agoraphobia, etc etc. very rarely left her house.
it was cool at first, but got annoying, couldnt take her anywhere, cuz she's get a panic attack. i couldnt come over when she was anxious, cuz she needed to be alone. whatever.
i tried to support her the bext i could, but i can only do so much before i give up.
note: during our relationship, i bought a fishtank, to help keep her mind off things. i told her when we broke up, im taking the fish tank with me.

so, after a couple break ups (arguments that ended with "you know what? its over. good bye", and soon followed with "im sorry, please come over")
anyways, i finally had enough of it, and i broke up with her.
alll was good for 2 weeks, until she texted me.
"i want the fishtank back. so if you would please bring it over asap, and get on with your life, that would be great. thanks"
me being me, i tell her to go F*** herself

long story short, my friends got involved, and so did hers, and the snowball effect started.
threats all over the place. it was messy. phone calls, texts, messages, etc etc.
my ex coming over to give everything i bought her back.

so, im gettig pissed off, so i was talking to her sister, and i said "im going to kill half your family. sorry."
her dad saw that, and flipped, and showed up at my door. he says "delete everything, and drop it, or im calling the cops"
so i did.
half an hour later, my crazy ex texts me, saying "btw, we called the cops. have fun."
apparently her mom decided she would call the cops anyways.

great.
so, the cops come over, almost arrest me, etc etc etc.
great fun.

she still tries to befriend me to this day. and when i accept her friend request on fb, she goes nuts on me againn and loses her mind.
it was entertaining for a while, but it just got annoying.

that was an intense story...wow. now back to studying for me!

[Impressive]

Wow that's a pretty brutal story dentinger.

My worst break up was with this girl i dated for 8 months. her family was rich so the minute they found out i was dating their daughter and once i won them over they bought us a trip for 2 to L.A for 7 days. this was about a month into the relationship, we went, had an amazing time, came back and things were great for like 4-5 months afterwards. i even went as far as getting her a diamond necklace for her and singing to her at a surprise 6 month party me and her cousin planned for us.

however there was always this one guy who'd known her for awhile longer than i had (i met him through her) and he was always jealous. i was nice to him but i knew deep down he wanted her. she would talk to me about it too and she'd always say how she would never do it and that he's just a friend and whatnot and obviously i believed her and thought the same way. i saw her almost every day for that timespan and during the summer months we dated but i ended up going for a vacation with my family to europe for 2 weeks shortly after our 6 month.

that's when things get weird...i was with her before i left and it was tough to say goodbye but we did and she said she loves me and she'll see me when i come back. so i get back, immediately i try to call her cell - it's off. then i try the house phone - not in service...so i start tripping out. since i got back late i didn't bother going to her house since she lived pretty far and i figured she'd be on msn. she wasn't. i woke up the next day, tried everything again and once again nothing worked. i took a trip over to her house that day only to see the usual cars, 2 mercedes s classes gone from the driveway, and a SOLD sign on the front lawn.

from what i can piece together, the jealous dude (darren) probably spent a lot of time making shit up about me to her to make her believe that i wasn't a good boyfriend. she was, like dentingers case a little messed up and she'd get extremely upset sometimes and stressed out over absolutely nothing. he probably put her in a state of mind where she couldn't be with me after foolishly believing his crap but she couldn't say goodbye so she figured she could cut me off. i don't know how a family could pack up and move so quickly so maybe it began earlier than i think but regardless the mututal friends we had that i spoke to when this happened eventually managed to say she had a breakdown and her family moved to oakville. i was totally heartbroken after and truthfully to this day i don't even know what to believe, or what happened.

it's amazing how you can go from "i love you baby you're the best boyfriend in the world" to nothing in such a short time span. :-/

[prinsesa]

Woww, thats crazy! @Impressive. They actually MOVED ?! Because of what happened between you two? Wow.
From all the break-up stories, I find that you make it or break it within the first year usually. Then after that, if you do break up after the 1 year mark, it's over something pretty serious and actually worth breaking up over ?

PS That was cool how you both went on vacation after a month..for 7 days..in LA! lol Sometimes, I do wish that I'm dating some super rich guy, but you cant help who you love lol

[Impressive]

Moved. Changed her email. Cell Phone, House Phone. She fancy huh? LOL

yea it was pretty ridiculous i doubt she got with that guy because he's a total jerk but it doesn't bother me anymore. the vacation to l.a was awesome because i lived there for a year so we visited people that i knew and stuff it was sweet lol.

[hit26k]

wow Dan, thats crazy. I couldn't imagine coming back from a relaxing vacation only to find out my girl up and moved b/c of some "long time friend".

[prinsesa]

Yeah, most I would do would be to change my cell phone number lol
Not move to a different city, change my house phone, etc.
Thats kind of after a divorce ish type of thing..lol


Id date her if she takes me to LA!!! :D

[TokyoKiller]

WTF Dude, that's whacked. Sounds like a nut-case in the making...lol

[laksman91]

Woww, thats crazy! @Impressive. They actually MOVED ?! Because of what happened between you two? Wow.
From all the break-up stories, I find that you make it or break it within the first year usually. Then after that, if you do break up after the 1 year mark, it's over something pretty serious and actually worth breaking up over ?

PS That was cool how you both went on vacation after a month..for 7 days..in LA! lol Sometimes, I do wish that I'm dating some super rich guy, but you cant help who you love lol

I feel bad for your bf

[stevenma188]

Hey man, don't be hatin'. My plan in life is to marry rich FTW!

[Thrizzl3]

WTF Dude, that's whacked. Sounds like a nut-case in the making...lol

reminds me of you HAHAHAHAHAH im jk :D

[prinsesa]

I feel bad for your bf

LOL why ? I know all my friends want someone who's rich who can afford all the designer stuff we want. But its not like were searching for some rich dude then dumb our boyfriends lol


Hey man, don't be hatin'. My plan in life is to marry rich FTW!
+ 1 !! lol jk lol

[stevenma188]

I'm not :chuckle Someone has to fund my expensive hobbies.....

[prinsesa]

I'm not :chuckle Someone has to fund my expensive hobbies.....

Get an older woman who's into younger men, she will be your MOD fund :D

[TokyoKiller]

reminds me of you HAHAHAHAHAH im jk :D

http://www.neowin.net/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/shiftyninja.gif

[She_Prime]

I'm not :chuckle Someone has to fund my expensive hobbies.....


Get an older woman who's into younger men, she will be your MOD fund :D

I believe he's talking about his aviation hobby more than his modding lol

[stevenma188]

Both^, although aviation definitely costs more than modding. I'd also like her to fund my mountain biking, photography, high end computers, and generally impulsive buying habits :)

[DumpInfo]

Go with the cougars man, there's plenty of women out there that look alot better then girls our age! *cheers you on*

[ZeroChalk]

After finding out who she was with.. that chump can't even compare with his crooked teeth and ghetto wear. I mean bay street vs ghetto? hello? Are you immature? hell yah. lol.

Though I didn't sleep all night.. my my mind is finally clear.

Lame attempt at getting back at me.. for my words of 'cusp' and not declaring her my gf after 6 months. That's why she was so quick to say she was in relationship. I mean 2 weeks? bhaahahah relationship? thar one fast relationship. She wanted to bring him to the house warming (though she didn't) to prove a point and piss me off. I read her like a book. I'm done with these games.

btw, I met the most beautiful girl over the weekend (absoluately stunning, fab personality, kind-hearted, awesome family background). We were almost identical in personality, interests, and even mishaps.

Will see how it goes.. signs are there that's she might be interested.. I'll take it slow as I'm a bit bitter.

[ZeroChalk]

LOL why ? I know all my friends want someone who's rich who can afford all the designer stuff we want. But its not like were searching for some rich dude then dumb our boyfriends lol


+ 1 !! lol jk lol

it's weird you said that.. I was at the pool party over the weekend.. and I was talking to these girls that were looking for a sugar daddy.. I was like geez...

[Thrizzl3]

After finding out who she was with.. that chump can't even compare with his crooked teeth and ghetto wear. I mean bay street vs ghetto? hello? Are you immature? hell yah. lol.

Though I didn't sleep all night.. my my mind is finally clear.

Lame attempt at getting back at me.. for my words of 'cusp' and not declaring her my gf after 6 months. That's why she was so quick to say she was in relationship. I mean 2 weeks? bhaahahah relationship? thar one fast relationship. She wanted to bring him to the house warming (though she didn't) to prove a point and piss me off. I read her like a book. I'm done with these games.

btw, I met the most beautiful girl over the weekend (absoluately stunning, fab personality, kind-hearted, awesome family background). We were almost identical in personality, interests, and even mishaps.

Will see how it goes.. signs are there that's she might be interested.. I'll take it slow as I'm a bit bitter.

seems as though she not all there in the head. in a relationship after 2 weeks? sounds like all she is looking for is bang bang boom with other guys. good thing you left her

[TokyoKiller]

After finding out who she was with.. that chump can't even compare with his crooked teeth and ghetto wear. I mean bay street vs ghetto? hello? Are you immature? hell yah. lol.

Though I didn't sleep all night.. my my mind is finally clear.

Lame attempt at getting back at me.. for my words of 'cusp' and not declaring her my gf after 6 months. That's why she was so quick to say she was in relationship. I mean 2 weeks? bhaahahah relationship? thar one fast relationship. She wanted to bring him to the house warming (though she didn't) to prove a point and piss me off. I read her like a book. I'm done with these games.

btw, I met the most beautiful girl over the weekend (absoluately stunning, fab personality, kind-hearted, awesome family background). We were almost identical in personality, interests, and even mishaps.

Will see how it goes.. signs are there that's she might be interested.. I'll take it slow as I'm a bit bitter.

Ummm, she's in a "relationship" within 2 weeks? Lets see how long it'll be before you hear back from her. Just watch..

[prinsesa]

I hate to say it but dude is probably a rebound =/ She WILL come back to you either trying to get you BACK or trying to piss you off more lol Im just glad you met someone at the party. Hopefully, this new girl isnt too hung up on the facebook relationship status change HAHAHA

Im not looking for a sugar daddy haha everything I own I bought myself from my house to my car to my clothes lol

[TokyoKiller]

Speaking of marrying rich..lol.


Men who earn less than women more "likely to cheat"

By Karin Zeitvogel (AFP) – 1 day ago

WASHINGTON — Men who earn less than their female partner are more likely to cheat on her, a study published Monday found.

Cheating may be a man's way of trying to restore his gender identity when he feels it is under threat, Christin Munsch, a sociology doctorate candidate at Cornell University, says in the study, which she authored and presented at the annual meeting of the American Sociological Association.

"Making less money than a female partner may threaten men?s gender identity by calling into question the traditional notion of men as breadwinners," said the study's author Christin Munsch, a sociology doctorate candidate at Cornell University.

"This relationship may be particularly strong for certain subgroups of the population that highly value traditional masculinity, like Latino men," she added.

Indeed, the study found that infidelity dramatically increased when the man earning less than his female partner is Latino, probably because breadwinner status is "one of the defining features of Hispanic masculinity."

Then again, the same study found that men whose partners were more dependent on them were also more likely to cheat, making it a lose-lose situation for women.

It's different for girls, though.

If a woman is the main breadwinner in the family, she's more likely to cheat -- it would seem that relationships where women earn more than men really are doomed -- and if she depends on her male partner for money, then she is less likely to cheat.

Overall, women are half as likely to cheat as men anyway, whatever the circumstances, the study found.

"Women?s femininity is not defined by their breadwinner status, nor is it defined by sexual conquest. Therefore, economic dependency does not serve as a threat to women," Munsch says.

"Rather, given the sexual double standard, it is likely that, for women, economic dependency leads women to be more faithful."

The study indicates ways to prevent one's partner cheating without giving up the well-paid day job.

Both sides being satisfied in a relationship is a sure-fire way to make infidelity disappear, and getting your partner to go to church or the mosque or temple regularly is another: the more regularly an individual attends a religious service, the less likely he or she is to cheat, the study says.

Looking for a partner in a university library, lab or lecture might also be an idea because, the study says, "the more education one reports, the less likely he or she is to engage in infidelity."

Munsch analyzed data on 1,024 men and 1,559 women who were married or living with a partner for at least a year for the study, which also found that, for whatever reason, men were around twice as likely as women to be unfaithful -- 6.7 percent of men cheated in a six-year period versus 3.3 percent of women.

http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5jBJxUr_1WFKWcAs20GFjYlwdkUYg

[towelsnap]

My worst break up .... here it goes

I just broke up with a girl and she was kinda a rebound at the start. She was part jamican and looked like rihanna :) . She had a daughter and was awesome at the start.... I knew her as a friend for 3 years than crossed the "friends zone" than we started dating. After a year of being together we were engaged and shit hit the fan. She kept telling her daughter that I was her actual father (the kid never met their real dad) so her child would call me "daddy". Than maybe she was just a loon but she demanded that I look after her all the time and "babysit" while she was at work and would give me a hard time if I hung out with my friends . I always had to be with her and "my instant family" . Don't get me wrong I'm not a dick so I kinda just settled and did what was asked. Things got worse she'd go out to the bar and I'd be stuck babysitting and tension between me and my family got worst (they could see I was getting used). We were together for 3 years when she dropped the "it's me or your family" line. lol like a champ... PEACE! Left the girl and met the woman of my dreams :). I still get crazy texts from her saying this would be our two year wedding anniversary. I swear some ppl out there are CRAZY SEEEEEEEEK HELP!

My all time favourite is when you date a stage five clinger and you go out with your friends and she doesn't believe you and demands to speak to your buddies to ensure no girls are there hahahahah classic.

[jaimie08mazda3]

Here is my worst breakup story


I was with a girl for about 3 years. For the first year things went great. We went to school together always hanging out whatever. She had her friends and I had her friends. The 2nd year went well but the 3rd year went to hell. In that time she got bored with me and cheated on me and I had not found out until it was too late. She dumped me on facebook saying I was too needy and that I didn`t trust her. 3 YEARS OF bullshit and I find out she cheated on me 3 times that I know about. Now she is pregnant with a kid and living in a shithole appartment and her boyfriend is on welfare... so basically I pay for them to live... boooooooo I still get screwed lol.

[hit26k]

Here is my worst breakup story


I was with a girl for about 3 years. For the first year things went great. We went to school together always hanging out whatever. She had her friends and I had her friends. The 2nd year went well but the 3rd year went to hell. In that time she got bored with me and cheated on me and I had not found out until it was too late. She dumped me on facebook saying I was too needy and that I didn`t trust her. 3 YEARS OF bullshit and I find out she cheated on me 3 times that I know about. Now she is pregnant with a kid and living in a shithole appartment and her boyfriend is on welfare... so basically I pay for them to live... boooooooo I still get screwed lol.

why are you paying for them?

[dentinger]

why are you paying for them?

his/our tax dollars pay for welfare.

[prinsesa]

Welfare's now called social assistance =)

Btw, its amazing how you guys find someone great right after a horrible break up.

EDIT: I feel guilty about the whole clingy thing, I guess I am kinda clingy too. Fail. lol.

[TokyoKiller]

his/our tax dollars pay for welfare.

In all seriousness, I hope that is the case more than anything else.

[Thrizzl3]

Welfare's now called social assistance =)

still known as welfare...stupid homeless/poor people walk into a WELFARE office and ask for social assisstance..i think they would be kicked out for using complicated vocabulary lol

[prinsesa]

@phil It shouldnt be known as welfare anymore though, unfo, people are ignorant about current issues surrounding it, better to call it social assistance hehe
Actually, majority of the time homeless people walk into shelters, and not the offices..

@towelsnap lol wow..i would be mad at MYSELF rather than my partner, that was so selfish of her to do what she did about the kids calling you daddy and introducing you as their own dad. That's really unfair.

[Thrizzl3]

@phil It shouldnt be known as welfare anymore though, unfo, people are ignorant about current issues surrounding it, better to call it social assistance hehe
Actually, majority of the time homeless people walk into shelters, and not the offices...

true say lol i stand corrected about homeless people

[hit26k]

his/our tax dollars pay for welfare.

ah, gotchya

[jaimie08mazda3]

his/our tax dollars pay for welfare.

DING DING DING... to hell with that... that girl will never get another cent from me except from my taxes... soo really she gets my $100 a week. She asked me a few months ago to borrow $500 because they needed something... I told them no get a job. Brutal...

[FONZ]

My worst break up .... here it goes

I just broke up with a girl and she was kinda a rebound at the start. She was part jamican and looked like rihanna :) . She had a daughter and was awesome at the start.... I knew her as a friend for 3 years than crossed the "friends zone" than we started dating. After a year of being together we were engaged and shit hit the fan. She kept telling her daughter that I was her actual father (the kid never met their real dad) so her child would call me "daddy". Than maybe she was just a loon but she demanded that I look after her all the time and "babysit" while she was at work and would give me a hard time if I hung out with my friends . I always had to be with her and "my instant family" . Don't get me wrong I'm not a dick so I kinda just settled and did what was asked. Things got worse she'd go out to the bar and I'd be stuck babysitting and tension between me and my family got worst (they could see I was getting used). We were together for 3 years when she dropped the "it's me or your family" line. lol like a champ... PEACE! Left the girl and met the woman of my dreams :). I still get crazy texts from her saying this would be our two year wedding anniversary. I swear some ppl out there are CRAZY SEEEEEEEEK HELP!

My all time favourite is when you date a stage five clinger and you go out with your friends and she doesn't believe you and demands to speak to your buddies to ensure no girls are there hahahahah classic.


That's when you press the Red Button. :chuckle

[x_o_k_x]

Welfare's now called social assistance =)

Btw, its amazing how you guys find someone great right after a horrible break up.

EDIT: I feel guilty about the whole clingy thing, I guess I am kinda clingy too. Fail. lol.

whats wrong with being clingy? I prefer girls being clingy then not give a shit

[TokyoKiller]

whats wrong with being clingy? I prefer girls being clingy then not give a shit

OMG Me too, I hate it when a girl doesn't show interest but she says she "likes" you and so do you...I'd rather her be clingy then confusing the **** out of my head.

[DumpInfo]

DING DING DING... to hell with that... that girl will never get another cent from me except from my taxes... soo really she gets my $100 a week. She asked me a few months ago to borrow $500 because they needed something... I told them no get a job. Brutal...

That's hilarious cause I probably would have done the exact thing! As for taxes man, I feel it everyday when I goto work considering we do reno's for Toronto Housing. My all time favorite is working in there apartment while the whole family sits on the couch watching tv. ABSOLUTE FAVORITE! :bang

[TokyoKiller]

That's hilarious cause I probably would have done the exact thing! As for taxes man, I feel it everyday when I goto work considering we do reno's for Toronto Housing. My all time favorite is working in there apartment while the whole family sits on the couch watching tv. ABSOLUTE FAVORITE! :bang

Or when I visit my friend who lives in Subsidized housing...and some of the cars I've seen in there blow my mind. From Infiniti G37's, Porsche Cayenne's, Mercedes SLK.

[DumpInfo]

Or when I visit my friend who lives in Subsidized housing...and some of the cars I've seen in there blow my mind. From Infiniti G37's, Porsche Cayenne's, Mercedes SLK.

Soo true! Makes you wanna think where our taxes dollars are going...one idiot lives in a 1700 sq ft apartment meanwhile he drives a 2008 bmw 750i

[horto]

... is when you date a stage five clinger...

haha, awesome.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPwBuFdBS5U/SncCOLlvC9I/AAAAAAAAAD4/bcMzFUdQoto/s320/dingleberry6ab.jpg

I had a girl like that once.

[TokyoKiller]

Soo true! Makes you wanna think where our taxes dollars are going...one idiot lives in a 1700 sq ft apartment meanwhile he drives a 2008 bmw 750i

I don't know how they hand out these residences, but I think an annual audit of each resident should be done to verify the validity of their need for subsidized housing. If you have a luxury vehicle, you should sell it and buy an economy vehicle to pay for their rent at normal rates.

[towelsnap]

haha, awesome.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPwBuFdBS5U/SncCOLlvC9I/AAAAAAAAAD4/bcMzFUdQoto/s320/dingleberry6ab.jpg

I had a girl like that once.

lol I think we all have had stage five clingers... the joys of growing up I guess

[prinsesa]

I don't know how they hand out these residences, but I think an annual audit of each resident should be done to verify the validity of their need for subsidized housing. If you have a luxury vehicle, you should sell it and buy an economy vehicle to pay for their rent at normal rates.

They do audits of course, you do know that the funding are from the provincial government, and if they dont do their job right, all the funding is going to be clawed back.
Right now, the waiting list for subsidized housing is 21 years, and it is not first come first serve..they rank the importance of housing:
1. Victims of abuse
2. Terminal Illness
3. Sole Support Parents
4. Seniors
5. And so forth..


whats wrong with being clingy? I prefer girls being clingy then not give a shit


OMG Me too, I hate it when a girl doesn't show interest but she says she "likes" you and so do you...I'd rather her be clingy then confusing the **** out of my head.

I know right ?!?! lol. Well my bf knows straight up I care. I dont mind him chilling with friends, but its just that I'm worried they would do stupid shit lol He tells me that maybe he doesnt realize it yet, hehe..men -___- takes one and half million years for them to realize you care lol

[TokyoKiller]

They do audits of course, you do know that the funding are from the provincial government, and if they dont do their job right, all the funding is going to be clawed back.
Right now, the waiting list for subsidized housing is 21 years, and it is not first come first serve..they rank the importance of housing:
1. Victims of abuse
2. Terminal Illness
3. Sole Support Parents
4. Seniors
5. And so forth..





I know right ?!?! lol. Well my bf knows straight up I care. I dont mind him chilling with friends, but its just that I'm worried they would do stupid shit lol He tells me that maybe he doesnt realize it yet, hehe..men -___- takes one and half million years for them to realize you care lol

Haha, I am pretty straight up...like I tell it like it is. Even if you don't "love" me yet, I expect you to care. If you are too scared to show you care, then please, take a hike.

[prinsesa]

Haha, I am pretty straight up...like I tell it like it is. Even if you don't "love" me yet, I expect you to care. If you are too scared to show you care, then please, take a hike.

True. Whats the point of being in a relationship when you dont care about the person lmao

[Zoom Zoom Boy]

Best line in this whole thread...instant classic. Love it.


...My all time favourite is when you date a stage five clinger ...

Moreover, after having read through this entire thread, I now feel so validated at my decision to become Hermaphroditic. Cause after all, I enjoy loving me. That is all.

[Riftler]

Best line in this whole thread...instant classic. Love it.



Moreover, after having read through this entire thread, I now feel so validated at my decision to become Hermaphroditic. Cause after all, I enjoy loving me. That is all.

LOL

[TokyoKiller]

Best line in this whole thread...instant classic. Love it.



Moreover, after having read through this entire thread, I now feel so validated at my decision to become Hermaphroditic. Cause after all, I enjoy loving me. That is all.

Uhhh.