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ace_master
04-25-2013, 02:39 AM
Ugh...
This doesn't pertain to TM3, but rather a personal vent

My 17 year old nephew and his friend left their home town of Langley, British Columbia for a weekend at the cottage on Nicola Lake (located about 150KM from Kelowna, BC).
They never returned home on Sunday for dinner. Both of their cell phones were found on the table at the cottage and a canoe was missing. Locals said that the boys were still at the cottage on Sunday morning, and that the lake was calm at the time. Winds were reported to have picked up in the afternoon, and waves are known to reach heights of 4ft in as little as 20 minutes.
RCMP were notified about the missing boys around 10:30PM on Sunday, which led to an immediate search. At about 2AM, some of the boys clothing, and a lamp that was still running were found along the shoreline. A canoe was spotted by a helicopter floating on it's side at the North end of the lake early Monday morning, Followed by some additional personal artifacts. They searched throughout the day on Monday, fighting the rough conditions of the lake but found nothing else. They said that the search was not longer being considered a rescue search, but a recovery search, as divers continue combing through the lake with sonar equipment.

At this point I can't help but suspect the worst. The worst part is not knowing... Not having any sort of closure Is there still a chance? What happened? How did it happen? How quick did it happen? Why did you have the flashlight on when you were going to be back home for dinner? Were you still out there during the night as they searched? Why didn't you take life jackets? Why were your phones left on the table?

I don't know where I expect this thread to go... I just needed to vent about it, as I've been thinking about Austin every waking moment since the whole thing hit me on Monday:(.

CTV (Video) (http://bc.ctvnews.ca/langley-teens-still-missing-after-desperate-search-1.1249122)
The Canadian Press (updated page) (http://www.castanet.net/news/BC/90807/Search-on-for-missing-teens-near-Merritt)
Vancouver Sun (http://www.vancouversun.com/news/RCMP+dive+team+resume+search+Nicola+Lake+missing+L angley+teens/8276871/story.html)
There are many more articles, but they are all the same information

I'll have to put a hold on everything I have going on with the car. An unscheduled trip to BC and a week or two off work is not going to fare well for me. I can't even go pick up my summer rims that Allen informed me came in today:S.

r4mi5awi
04-25-2013, 03:09 AM
My heart and the hearts of TM3 are with you and your family at this trying time. Never lose hope.

Thrizzl3
04-25-2013, 07:58 AM
oh shoot :( My heart goes out to your family

aris
04-25-2013, 08:07 AM
I'm sorry to hear this terrible news.... Hopefully they find them

peterm15
04-25-2013, 08:32 AM
My heart and the hearts of TM3 are with you and your family at this trying time. Never lose hope.

I can really only +1 as I think this says it best. It's a terrible situation and I hope the best for you and your family.

ace_master
04-25-2013, 09:14 AM
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers guys. No news this morning.


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chan7
04-25-2013, 10:09 AM
My heart and the hearts of TM3 are with you and your family at this trying time. Never lose hope.

+1, very well put. I hope the best for you and your family as its never an easy situation to deal. Keep positive!

midnightfxgt
04-25-2013, 10:25 AM
Thoughts are with you and the family. I know exactly what your going through man, as this happened with my step brother and several friends in Lake Ontario years ago :(

Hopefully they find them held up in the woods looking for food etc.

-John

aZuMi
04-25-2013, 10:48 AM
Sorry to hear the news. Hopefully everything will be ok. God bless you and your family in these tough times man.

09ms3
04-25-2013, 10:59 AM
my thoughts are with you and your family in these trying times.

bluntman
04-25-2013, 11:10 AM
Stay positive!

Jsquared
04-25-2013, 11:12 AM
My heart and the hearts of TM3 are with you and your family at this trying time. Never lose hope.

this. I cant even begin to imagine what you're going through. Thoughts are definitely with you today.

FD22
04-25-2013, 11:56 AM
My heart and the hearts of TM3 are with you and your family at this trying time. Never lose hope.

Agreed.

Hope things work out for you real soon :(

Rob23
04-25-2013, 12:44 PM
wow so sorry to hear about all of this! I don't know what I would do if my Niece or Nephew went missing. Best wishes to you and your family! Stay positive!

roachkillah
04-25-2013, 01:42 PM
my thoughts go out to you and your family!!!
stay strong

Tuscani01
04-25-2013, 01:57 PM
I know exactly what you are going through right now.

Several years ago, I lost a close friend when he drowned after his canoe tipped on a lake here in Ontario. He and a friend were missing for days, and those days were so hard. The mission turned into a recovery mission, yet we all still had hope that maybe, just maybe, they were safe and just hadn't contacted anyone yet.

We didn't give up hope until the bodies were recovered. It sucked, big time... but like you said, the worst part was not knowing anything at all. Don't give up hope! I don't regret not giving up hope at all, despite the authorities saying they had no chance.

There are many questions that you will never be able to find answers to, and you will go through a phase where regrets begin kicking in. I even went through a phase of anger... 'Why wouldn't he wear a life jacket?' was running through my mind constantly. Just hang in there, and hope for the best. It's really the only thing you can do right now.

omalak
04-25-2013, 03:01 PM
Very sorry to hear this news, but for your sake and your familiy, don't lose hope!

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope this ends with some good news.

I think I speak on behalf of everyone at TM3 when I say, if you need anything at all just ask, we're here for each other.

ace_master
04-26-2013, 12:17 AM
Thanks everyone... Looks like the search is going to make it's way into the weekend. It was nice to be at the AA meet tonight. Got my mind off things.

Jeff-TheBiz
04-26-2013, 01:08 PM
just spotted this..

Hope they turn up safe and sound.

6strings
04-26-2013, 01:13 PM
That is terrible. Hope it all works out. Try and stay positive.

peterm15
04-26-2013, 02:27 PM
Crap that was you. I knew I recognized your handle but didn't put 2&2 together

It was great chatting with you and your GF. Good for you for coming out to the meet to get your mind off things a little. Now just hopefully to get some good news.

greyseason
04-26-2013, 03:59 PM
Sorry to hear about this man, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

ace_master
05-06-2013, 11:13 PM
After a long and tiring search, and a lot of fundraising efforts to bring a couple up from Idaho with advanced sonar equipment, The found the boys early this morning (http://globalnews.ca/news/539959/bodies-recovered-of-two-teenagers-missing-on-nicola-lake/).

They say that it is going to take 2 weeks to do a full autopsy and investigation into the matter, at which point funeral services will be held. Unfortunately i wont be able to make it out there with my dad for the services, but it's good to hear that they are headed home after this 2 week ordeal.

RIP Austin Kingsborough (left), and Brendan Wilson (right)

http://imageshack.us/a/img827/9352/austinbrendon.jpg


Austin (left) pictured here with his twin brother Kaylin.

http://imageshack.us/a/img689/5473/austinkaylin.jpg

Going to miss you forever buddy!:(

Scottobot
05-06-2013, 11:19 PM
Tragic.. I'm really sorry to hear this is how it ended (I was hoping against hope they'd be found alive somehow), but at least you have some closure. My sincere condolences.

aris
05-06-2013, 11:34 PM
Sorry for your loss

Wes08M3
05-06-2013, 11:47 PM
Very sorry to hear about this. My condolences go out to you and your family.

cwp_sedan
05-07-2013, 12:15 AM
Sorry for your loss. Prayers go out to you and your family.

starscream
05-07-2013, 01:52 AM
I am sorry to hear about this...I am sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family in this trying time.

peterm15
05-07-2013, 02:18 AM
So sorry to hear this.

Genpu_Mz3
05-07-2013, 02:30 AM
sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family

Rob23
05-07-2013, 10:38 AM
Sorry to hear this, very sad. My condolences to you and your family.

r4BBiT
05-07-2013, 03:23 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

omalak
05-07-2013, 06:27 PM
Very tragic, i'm sorry to hear about your loss.

Hopefully this makes people aware of how important it is to have life jackets an other safety devices with you when out on the waters.


My deepest sympathy to you and your family.


May they both rest in peace. Amen